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I hate being Venus in Virgo?

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"Venus in Virgo

Venus in Virgo people are not the flirtatious sort. Instead, their appeal lies in their dedication, their willingness to work on the relationship, and to make the relationship work in real terms. Unlike Venus in Leo, they won't try to impress you with grand gifts or promises. Their gifts are less showy, but perhaps far more generous -- gifts of devotion and attention to details about you. Venus in Virgo men and women quietly (and often slowly) make their way into your heart. They are quite sensitive in love -- even insecure -- and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal. They prefer to play it safe in their relationships, and they need to be confident that you like them before they make a move. They are great listeners and they make it a habit to observe and learn all of your ins and outs. Their love can be of the Kindergarten variety -- they show they care by nagging or criticizing. Remember, though, that they are not trying to hurt you when they are pointing out the flaws in your thinking, plans, or even character. They truly are trying to help! Venus in Virgo is attracted to nondescript people who have largely gone unnoticed. Show-offs and know-it-alls turn them off.

Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the little things they do -- and they do a lot. The problem is, they do these things so quietly that you may not always notice or credit them for all these kind gestures. They do need some space (after all, they're generally quite busy making everything work), so give it to them. Be genuine, not ostentatious. They are really not difficult to please after you have taken care of these basic needs. Avoid pushing your friends or family on them too fast -- remember they are a little shy. They aim to please, and are easily intimidated by your experiences. Let them know how much you value them, and they will reward you with devotion and a charming willingness to talk things out.

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He is very devoted, does not show emotions: he and doesn't always let himself go, either through fear of ridicule or through fear of not being loved in return as much as he loves. He is therefore sometimes too undemonstrative. May give off the sense that his love is not for free. Caring but worries that he is not exciting enough. Careful with money."

Can someone PLEASE help me NOT be like this?!?!?!

I'm open to ANY tips, advice, ANYTHING.

And to all you astrology non believers, I know where you're coming from. I only believe in Astrology to a certain extent, if even that. However I'm DESPERATE on this because this is VERY accurate, and even though it has its ups and downs, I am NOT liking what I am reading.

So please, does anyone have ANY tips on how to NOT be like this??

Although yahoo gives you +10 points only if you get the best answer on this, but for reading this alone, you'll get +10 points on my book. :):).

Mucho Appreciatedo.

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  1. lol...It looks like you're going to have to develop all those GOOD Venus in Virgo traits instead of focusing on all the less fortunate ones...

    Develop that good taste, loyalty, discernment, ability to see the small details of your lover, the "mother earth" qualities of Virgo, the refinement...

    There's so much good about that Venus, and Venus sub-rules Virgo anyway, so it' s not such a bad place.

    Your strong Venus helps offset the impractical tendencies of your Leo sun; that Venus won't let the Leo over spend and makes quality more important than cost...

    Your sensible Venus will help stabilize the fiery emotions of the Aries moon...you feel passionate, but your Venus will restrain and discipline that passion until it's able to set it free at the appropriate time.

    Scorpio rising is another passionate placement, and can lend to so much drama without that Virgo Venus adding a little sanity...

    It appears that your Virgo Venus was given to you to help you channel and focus your other passionate qualities into something practical and productive. Right now you may feel that it's holding you back...I think in time you may learn to appreciate your Venus as a counterbalance to all the other emotional stuff in your life.


  2. Appreciate your Mars isn't in Virgo. Venus there gives discretion and good taste. Where is your Mars? My Mars is in Virgo conjunct Neptune in the 12th house...Mercury is in there too. Talk about sexually self distructive eeech!

  3. Get some correction fluid and put Venus where you want. Nobody needs to know. I won't tell.

  4. Makes perfect sense,sounds like your leo and aries quailities are clashing with your scorpio ascendant and venus in virgo traits.I don't think it's necessarily a venus in virgo problem,your sun(inner essence) and moon(emotional nature) are totally at odds with how your express yourself outwardly(ascendant).Both sun and moon,and mars are all outgoing and action oriented,get it done now signs.That venus in virgo and scorpio rising put on the brakes and resist that.Plus nethier like being out in the limelight or center of attention.Cross-purposes, naturally you'd feel misunderstood and ignored,that everything you put out there is for nothing,that no one notices.Or so it feels that way to you, at least in how you see things around you as being and react to it.You can etheir fight it or learn to adjust and exress these quialites more in tune with your inner nature.Where is your venus placed? In your 11th or 10th? those can modify your virgo quailities (more out going,socialble,out in the public or concern with influencing others).Is your moon in your 6th house? That's the natural house of virgo,do you have any squares or oppsositions to your moon or venus? That could indicate insecurity and frustration also.I think your best bet is to learn to work with these traits and find a way to adjust to this frustration and conflict,finding positive things about that placement and how you can better express that,without feeling guilt or self loathing over what is a part of your nature,positive and negative.

  5. Ugh. Tell me about it. My Venus is in Virgo and it conjuncts my Sun, so it's much harder on me.

    But, I've learned to accept it. It's a part of my personality and I can't help what I am.  

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