I hate my JEALOUSY problem. HELP?

Question

Okay, i really like this boy, and hes cheated on his ex with me. And were thinking about hooking up, but were going to give it a little time.

Back to the point: Theres this REALLY pretty girl i know i dont really talk to her, but i know her and were cool. Shes so pretty, and today she had all the guys staring. Not trying to be full of myself or anything, but im pretty too, i just think shes WAY prettier her and everyone thinks shes pretty.

Today after school, i was hanging out with some friends and i saw him and his friend, and he was standing infront of her just checking her out. I was like WOW... im SOOOO jealous now, and UGH im so scared he'd choose her over me, or he'll start liking her. And on TOP of that, she thinks hes cute.

Im so jealous, and sad. They see eachother in the halls, and after school.

How do i get over this?

what should i do??

And i know looks arent everything...but shes [cooler] then me, and to most guys looks are.

Answer 1

Heh. I smeeeellllll

             KARMA

Answer 2

GRL! ur prob way prettierthings w/ him

I mean just keep talkin to him a lot and doin him outa skool!

Once he really starts to get to know u and u get close shell be outa the picture 4 him! Good Luck! =)

Answer 3

You sound a little insecure about your looks. The cosmetics and  fashion industry really can diminish a beautiful person's ego especially at that vulnerable stage. It's never enough at looking just the right way.

As a guy I always found that it was the thought between the eyes that attracted me the most. A positive attitude and great sense of humour are not always in the same package with a good looking girl.

I believe this always tips the balance in favour of the girl that doesn't have much more between the ears than a smooth complexion and ample attire. It's a much more enjoyable relationship that can stand the test of time much more than silicone and makeup.

Answer 4

tell the guy that your ready to hook up and that you gave enough time that should stop her right in her tracks

Answer 5

Hello,,

i do not think you have a jealousy problem,, i think you have good common sense,,

If you know and (I GUESS YOU DO) that this guy cheated on a girlfriend with you.. etc than he is probably going to do the same with you..eventually.

If this girl you say is so tempting, and you think she is better than you..then encourage him to go for it with her

YES I SAID THAT,,

and let him know that you saw him looking at her and cool

go for it dude..

and when you get that out of your system,, call you

and if you are free,, well see what happens

and if you are not,, well good for you and he loses out.

Really you are very young and this is part of growing up.

but if you can not relax, and enjoy a guy,

and if you will get those ugly butterflies, and feel like c**p

having him in your life and on your mind,

than he is not worth it,, and if  his testosterone is in charge,, than you might as well flip a coin,,

to see the result,,

if a guy cheats on a girlfriend, wife, lover, or whatever,,

when all he has to do is tell the truth,,

ask yourself why,,, and you wont know the answer but i will tell you

I AM A LOT OLDER THAN YOU, AND YOU CAN ASK ANY OTHER ADULT  ..OK

A CHEATER IS SOMEONE WHO IS INSECURE AND OR GREEDY, AND WANTS IT ALL AT ANY COST,, AND THIS IS WHAT HE IS.. AND IT IS NOT SUCH A GOOD DEAL EVEN IF HE IS CUTE, OR FINE OR WHATEVER WORD YOU USE,,

ON THE OTHER HAND, IF A GUY IS NOT READY TO S ETTLE DOWN, GO STEADY ETC,,THAN HE SHOULD HAVE ENOUGH CHARACTER, AND MATURITY TO SAY SO,, AND GIVE A GIRL A CHANCE TO FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL NOT PLAY GAMES,,

ETC, ETC,,

GOOD LUCK,, AND remember if you have to be in a beauty contest, and that your prize is if u get picked,,you get very little back for all your effort,,WELL

YOU HAVE SO MUCH MORE VALUE,, AND WHEN YOU LEARN HOW TO RECOGNIZE ALL YOUR GIFTS, not just the beauty,, than you wont compete, you will be having guys compete for you..

Answer 6

You need to just be self confident....everyone gets jealous you just have to know that he likes you...but it doesn't sound good because he cheated on his girlfriend with you, so there's no stopping him from cheating on you with another girl.. Remember the golden rule; do unto others as you would have others do unto you...Karma!

Answer 7

then you should talk to him before she gets him.besides even though being attractive is sometimes a big bonus with guys other things like attitude, confidence, intelligence, and social skills are also huge bonuses with a lot of cute guys too.so dont be surprised if the friendly ugly girl gets a chance too!