I hate my best friend's boyfriend! what do i do?

Question

i love my best friend to pieces we r like one person we r so close but in the couple of months she has been pretty much ignoring me for her boyfriend. he is a good guy little annoying and dumb but always really nice to her. we are constantly competing for her friendship. he acts like I'm his enemy so i tried speaking to him and her about how i feel left out and they said it would change now but it is exactly the same. I'm happy for her but i feel like c**p when they are together around me. i am only talked to when things aren't great between them or if they are not with each other at that time. i need help i don't want to hate him i just do!! HELP?!

Answer 1

You've just got to deal with it.... It probably won't last.

Ask her to the shops and stuff, and don't invite him. If she asks to bring him too, say you want a girls night out.  

Answer 2

OK, here's what you do. First you're gonna have to get your hands on some chloroform. After you get it you invite them over to spend the night, you know; just a little sleep over party between friends. You play the whole thing "very cool" until they fall asleep. Then you gas the dude good! Are you following me? Now that he's out, you strip him naked and then dress him up in your underwear, (a dirty pair on his head is a nice extra touch) set him down in front of the tube with some really raunchy porno playing. (Something with whips and chains and transvestites ought to do the trick) Grease his hands up with Vaseline or some kind of cream (make sure you leave the container within his arms reach) then scatter lots of wadded up toilet paper balls around him. Then you go back to bed and discreetly wake your friend up. "What's that noise in the other room?" You ask her. "And where is what's-his-face?" She goes to investigate and problem's solved.

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Tell your friend how you feel! Tell her it's not fun being a third wheel. She may not realise just how left out you feel, since she's too preoccupied with her boyfriend. If she's a good friend she will make the effort to do something.

Suggest that you to more things together just yourselves without her boyfriend. Or, if you have to go out with her and her boyfriend, get some more friends along too so you won't feel left out.

Good luck! :)

Answer 4

Try and talk to her when she is alone  

Answer 5

Don't do anything. Just be patient and wait. Don't tell your girlfriend anything negative about him unless she asks your opinion.  

Answer 6

you need to tell her that you need her as a friend. and not only when things arent going good with her boyfriend. tell her exactly how you feel. if she is truly your friend she will make sure this changes. but if she gets mad or doesnt stop then she doesnt deserve you as a friend. you may also try telling her boyfriend that you dont mind them being together but that you and your friend need some time too.

Answer 7

i had the same problem and then i talked to my friend and that did nothing so i sat them both down and i said exactly this....."look i know you to r happy together and I'm really happy for you and you spend so much time together that me and you don't spend any together anymore and wen we do its always you and him like I'm not there so  i need you to decide if you still want to be friends i need to no because i don't want to be dragged around any longer  so if your happy with just him in your life and you don't need me any more i will go on my way and leave you to your own life  but if you want me to stay then its gonna have to change a little ." she understood and we r back to normal and you have to take control some time in a relationship even if its just a friendly one you still have to get your point across  

Answer 8

yep that happened to me. she will come crawling back when he leaves her.

the reason you hate him is in your instincts... something is threatening your relationship with someone you REALLY love. So naturally you hate it.

probably some rivraly fr your friends attention is going on here. You need to speak to your friend about this because she is taking you for granted here and thats not on.

Answer 9

kill him

Answer 10

get a boyfriend or a friend that is a boy, so you have someone to talk to when you go out. boys usually talk to boys about football and stuff, so ur boyfriend or friend should distract ur girlfriends boyfriend from talking to her, so you can talk to her.