I hate my best friend. what do I do?

Question

We're always hanging out together and doing things together, but we're always fighting. and it's got to the point where we've actually had physical fights. And I'm the victim mostly, and whenever I talk to him about it, he says sorry and assures me he won't do it again and tells me that everything will be good. but then about three days later we're screaming at each other. what can I do about it? or what can i do to fix it?

Answer 1

If you hate him, then he's definitely not your best friend.  

Answer 2

Well if you really want to still be friends then try and avoid it or when you guys are fighting, though it may hurt your pride just admit defeat in whatever you're fighting over. Or just try and drop it. But I don't think you need a 'friend' like that, and if you're at the point where you hate him tell him that he really needs to stop whatever it is that he's doing, because you're starting to hate him for it. If your friendship falls apart then thats just the way it was meant to be it's better than fighting a pointless fight or getting hit.

Answer 3

Take Kung Fu lessons and kick his @ss next time.

Answer 4

Tell him the truth

Answer 5

Stop Talking To Him It Might Knock Some Sense Into him He Might Just Relise Wat he Has Done

Answer 6

Tell him you are done and mean it.

Answer 7

Your best friend is like your brother you guys will always fight try stepping out when he acts this way im the same why with my friends some times just mean

Answer 8

stop hanging around with him. just phase him outta your life find some friends that you really get on with and things will be better

Answer 9

The reason you fight is probably because you are in love and you are trying to hide your feelings from each other.

I recommend that you buy some candles, a romantic cd and some wine and invite him round. Just let the passion flow.

I've learned in life that you dont aprieciate what youve gone til its gone, and one day youl wake up and realise youve just missed out on the biggest thing in your life.

Go, go now. Be with the man you love.

Answer 10

Try having a serious talk. If that doesn't work out, it may be time to move on.

Answer 11

Just talk to him and agree to dissagree sometimes but just stop the fighting!!!

Answer 12

Think about the words "best friend". You're saying that this is the one friend out of all the rest of your friends who is the best at being a friend. It doesn't sound like this friend fulfills those requirements. Stay friends, but maybe you guys had better put some distance between you for a little bit until you figure out what the root issue is. What sorts of things do you fight about? How can you avoid those topics? I think you guys have a lot to discuss. If you're at school, maybe go with your friend to the counselling service. They're always free at school. Good luck!

Answer 13

Best friends=Physical fights=I don't think so= He's history!

Answer 14

That's an oxymoronic question. Best and hate are not compatible descriptions. You both need new friends.  

Answer 15

Tell him forget about being friends.

Answer 16

Get a new best friend.

Answer 17

I HATE YOU 2

Answer 18

just talk to him and say "look dude im tired of this we are supposedly best friends but we keep fighting and we always end up being friends again and im tired of that im sorry but thats it im trough with you im freaking tired of you so i dont think we can be friends becuz this aint what true friendship is about so F*** this " sorry to curse i just get in the moment lol and tell him jsut like that he will get mad but hey u dont have to be taking his c**p hope it helped i know it did...

Answer 19

theres obviously something in each others personalities that sparks these fights. unless you can figure out what it is and change it, i think your friendship isnt going to workout  

Answer 20

Just tell him that you can't be bothered with it. It doesn't seem to be much of a friendship if you keep hurting each other and screaming at each other.

You have two opinions. You could tell him that you don't want to be his friend anymore, and ignore him, or you two can sort out your problems.

Answer 21

Take a break from one another!  Tensions are likely to get high if you two spend too much time together.  Take some time to spend with your other friends or at camp, on vacation, whatever.  You'll both come back with renewed appreciation for the other's special qualities.

Answer 22

that really is not friendship and it will only hurt you in the long run to stay friends.  There are plenty of people in this world that would be better for you as a friend.

Answer 23

Just slowly stop hanging out with him less and less until you stop fighting and once you stop fighting well you don't hate him anymore. And then start hanging out with other people and your friend will come to you.

Answer 24

Save yourself the headache and end the friendship.

Answer 25

i hate my best friend to she is all saw being some times crazy and talk about paranormal things .i been friend with her 4 years and evrey people in my class hate her because of her problem (about paranormal things) so a couple of days ago i said her in face that i don't like her little culture she started to cry but late she told me yes you right

Answer 26

Well i have had this problem before. (no the phical part though) And i was mad at her always getting mad at me so i said to her i am done with you being mad iat me so leave me alone and that was that. Were not friends anymore and i am actully happy it made my life easier.

Answer 27

stop hanging around as much! Try doing some of the activities by yourself, or with someone else. Some space is needed, but don't tell ya bestfriend, he might think your acting funny. Just try to avoid him sometimes.  

Answer 28

are u being force to be friend?

if yes, just avoid meeting with him again

if no, are you still want to be friend with him?

if no, just 'break' with him

if yes, i can't help you, i think no one can help

Answer 29

Stop talking to him...and he might come to realize how much of a jerk he is being.But if it continues after thinking it can turn into something worse.

Answer 30

The problem is you both don't respect each others positions if you did there would be no argument unless your friend is not a friend in the first place.

Whatever you are fighting about try to understand the other person idea with out insulting them or their idea. Ask the same of your friend.

If they cannot do this you should not stay in a relationship that is abusive.  

Answer 31

If you're physically abusive toward one another, you need to end the relationship. Friends are supposed to make you happy, not miserable.