I hate my big b***s because of my mom!

Question

My mom is always yelling at me for it! When we went to a water park last week she didn't want to invite any of her friends because of that. She said that she didn't want her friends seeing me in a bathing suit. Sometimes it makes me feel like crying because I could be wearing like 3 layers to cover up my b***s and my mom will still yell at me because she would say my b***s are too big and I need to cover it up even more or wear a sports bra. Its sooo annoying! I hate my b***s sooo much and my mom only makes it worse! She says that no ones ever gonna take me seriously when talking to me because all theyre gonna be looking at is my b***s. I really hate it when she says that to me and I wish she would just let it be. No matter how many layers or sports bras I wear theyre not gonna get any smaller! What can I do to make my mom stop acting like having big b***s is something to be ashamed of?

Answer 1

This is ridiculous! Trust me your the one whos right here, big b***s is nothing to be ashamed of. I was really surprised when i was reading this...dont hate them love em! Im sorry to hear your mums acting like this maybe she'll get use to it after a while, your her daughter for god sakes. Sorry if i sound a bit nasty but im just trying to help.

Answer 2

Ask another adult, friend or family to have a talk with your mom.  Ask them to explain that you have no control over how large your breast got and that she is being emotionally abusive about this issue.  Please try to ignore her in the meantime.  You have nothing to be ashamed of.  Also, I hope that you are not seriously wearing more than one sport bra at a time, because I'm afraid that could injure you!

Answer 3

Jealousy?  Anyway, you should be proud you got some girl, Us men love them.  Now we all dont know your age or anything but if you old enough to start going out with the guys then she probably dont want them men coming in and going after you right now.

But d**n girl, you should love those.

Answer 4

It's not right that she's saying that to you.  It's nothing to be ashamed of, and it's not as if that is something you can change.  But unfortunately, you probably can't change her mind about this, so all you can do is ignore her.  Be proud of who you are and what you're gifted with.

Answer 5

Sounds to me your mom is jealous of you. That's just wrong what she's doing to you. She's the one that should be ashamed for treating you that way and making you hate your body. I'm sorry, but that's not being a good mother IMO. A mother making her child hate themselves.  

Answer 6

It isn't your fault there like mountains.

Answer 7

The Person you are Describing sounlds like a bully rather than a Mother.

Sorry if its a bit Harsh.

Answer 8

Tell your mom that its not your fault you have big b***s.................Dont feel bad, alot of girls would do outrageous things to look like you..........Maybe your mom just wishes she could look like you too.........GOOD LUCK