I hate my boyfriend tonight!! Why is he doing this?

Question

Ok here it goes.....my boyfriend and I are both 16 years old. We are in love and each others best friend. However, this summer we talked about all the time we would spend together and in the beginning we did spend time together....but he got a 2nd job, and not just a part time job that most teenagers will get.....he got a FULL second time job. I WILL very little if EVER see him until school starts because he also has football practice after his job.......i am every single negative emotion u can think of right now, but especially resentful because this full time job is something he does not need, i know for a fact, he only wants to make up for buying video games for himself. I feel so hurt because he obviously does not have time for me and should not be in a relationship with so much on his plate. I barely ever see h im now......so all month i'll just be alone without him.....its almost like i dont want to see him now because im angry but im sure tomorrow i'll feel different. What should I do? I'm not ready for this i'm only 16 and i want my best friend!--------------my boyfriend!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

make other friends so your not lonely.if you two are really meant to be it will work out & he'll find time for you. if he doesnt, I would take it as a hint that he is unable to speak what he really feels. good luck.

Answer 2

it sounds like you are getting to dependent on him. when you get a boyfriend you shouldn't dump your friends. you have to balance both. so try to hang out with your other friends when he is at work. you should also be proud of him, he sounds very responsible and has goals.

have you talked to him about how you are feeling? He's a guy therefor he might not even realize that you are hurt.  

Answer 3

Dude calm down.

This shows he's motivated and responsible.  Stop being selfish.  If you really loved him and he was your best friend, then you'd be happy for him.  Getting a job at 16, especially in todays economy is difficult!

You should know how to be happy without spending time with him.  Read a book, take a walk, hang out with your other friends.  Don't mope around!

He's living a good, full life.  I suggest you do the same.

Answer 4

I agree with the person above me.  You don't truly love him if you are acting like this.

Look, your boyfriend's life does not revolve around you.  He is 16 for crying out loud, and he still has his own life to live.  Be glad that he is ambitious and motivated and knows the benefits of hard work.  You will never be the center of his universe, so stop thinking that you are.  That's what causes these negative emotions.

And honestly...you might want to rethink this whole "love" thing, especially on your end.  To be in love means to love the person through thick and thin, no matter what.  This includes job opportunities that might limit the time to see each other.