I hate my cousine.help????

Question

ok,first i lived in another country and my cousin lived in Amercia.when she came for vacation we were really nice to her and her family.but when i came to America to live here everything changed.she started getting jealous of mr and started copying everything i wore .when we were in America we were searching for home to live so we were supposed to live in their house for 20 days but believe me in that 20 days ,everyday she would cry and say that we are making her uncomfortable and that we are in her some kinda way.but we would lock in her room until she finishes her homework so we didn't interrupt her.or we would get out of the house as soon we could.now that we live in our own house she thinks that I'm having a competition everyday but I'm not.God i wish she just moved somewhere far,far,far away so i couldn't see her.and we fight like everytime we go to their house or they come to our house.

Answer 1

Your in America to now,

and she probably feels people will like you better or something similar. Before you weren't a threat.

The copying you though suggests that she idolizes you as well, or that she wishes to be better than you.

But she is most likely worried that you are much better than her, and people will prefer you to her.

You could speak to your cousins family & yours (with your cousin)

at the same time about how you feel.

The as a family, you should be able to work it out together.

Answer 2

ignore her..

make her see that she is NOT worth any of your time. i mean if all she does is fight with you then you should just ignore her. let her see that you are mature enough not to step down to her level of thinking. she should be happy that family is close by unlike other families they are miles and miles apart. right now she's just feeling insecure because she probably sees you as a threat, you can be the new cool girl or something, but right now I guess the best thing to do is to ignore her, stay out of her way.. you can also talk to your parents about it..

remember, she's acting immature so don't step down to her level, be the mature one. Good Luck!