I hate my dad so much,can you help me with my problem?

Question

He teases me constantly.He never stops.He always talks about the most 'popular' girl school,and always asks:Why aren't you popular?Then,he'll say her name all the time.Then,he picks on me about my best friend,which is my cousin.And always makes fun of her hair color,freckles,and always says:Cousins can't be friends.And he picks on me about her dead brother in-law,too.I mean he never stops!I told him a billion times to stop,but he won't.My mother won't do anything,because if she does,he'll just tease her.Please can you help me?!!?!??!?!This has going on ever since kindergarten,and I'm in ninth grade now.

Answer 1

that sucks, your dad seriously needs to stop. get other people to back you up!!! use these answers on yahoo. start making fun of him and ask how it feels. tell your cousin about him making fun of her, then her dad can back you up!!! there is a strength in numbers. and the dead brother-in-law deal, if its someone she really cared  about, then that is a HUGE problem. that is something he definitely should not tease about! this is truly wrong.

Answer 2

Don't hate your Dad.  My Dad passed away 30 years ago and I still ache for him some days.  

Every  parent is different.  Try walking away but don't say anything.  Let him realize words do hurt.  The more you ignore him, he'll stop.  If he asks why you walked away, tell him, you are tired of the same old conversation and there's no way the issue can be resolved.  

There's an old saying.  You are known by the company you keep and your last name is something to be proud of.  

I was never popular and I never had a lot of friends but I didn't have to endure what your Dad is doing to you though.  I was teased by my 'classmates" in elementary school and by ignoring them they got bored with me.

Answer 3

If this is your dad's way of giving you attention, then he is very misguided.  HE has a problem, but you're the one who will have to get the help.  He is very imature and insensitive to keep teasing you for so many years.  His head must be very thick for him not to see what he is doing to you.  I know you don't really hate him, but you hate what he is doing.  Ask a counselor at school for help and advice.  You need someone who will listen to your side of the story.  

Answer 4

Since your older now you need to talk to him.  You need to set up a time with No TV and sit him down to talk about it.  First he is going to be very nervous because he will think u r pg or something, but when u tell him he should stop because he is hurting ur feelings and no dad should ever want that.

I also think this is his way of showing u he loves u.  Its weird but that's probably what he is doing.

Signed a caring dad.

Answer 5

hey well my dad teases me all the time it may not be the same sorta thing he jus teases me lyk in a way that he bums my bro and makes me feel like the **** 1 that shouldnt have a place in the family. really they r jus bullies u need to let him c ur not bothered talk back to him tease him thats what i do to my dad and he has sorta stopped it now cuz he knows it doesnt bovva me and by me talking back to him i have more authority over him if that makes any sense

its really weird but it works for me =]

or wot u cud do is jus av a father and daughter chat i mean ur cousins parents must say sumthin bout him takin the mic outta their daughter???

good luck hun =]

Answer 6

I cant imagine a father acting like that towards his daughter sorry but he sounds really immature...why dont you just let him say what ever you want and you pretending you are not listening to him? trust me...that will drive him nuts that he just talks and talks and you dont respond back...ignore him as much as you can...imagine you talk to someone and they dont answer back? wouldnt that get on your nervs? yea right? so i think the best thing to do is to ignore him and let him talk as much as you want...you are not going to let him control your life for the rest of your life...he has nothing better to talk about that is why he is teasing you hunny...ignore the guy

Answer 7

dads are jerks! he wants to get a reaction from you either that or he is just plain childish.. or has inner issues with his childhood.. tease him back with some comments.. ask him why he is horrible to you  

Answer 8

I would cut him off. Every time he teases you just lock him off! Say to him dad, on a level. Grow the h**l up. What the h**l is the matter with you? You get some sadistic kick out of tormenting your own child?! Remove yourself from my presence till you feel ready to conduct yourself in an adult manner. Seriously. On the real, be straight with him. Otherwise it will continue.Don't be scared. If he says anything let him know. If he wasn't acting like this then you wouldn't need to be so blatant with it. And be consistent with it.