I hate my life I want to die?

Question

I hate my mom and dad.they buy both my brothers who are rich and 21 and 28 btw they buy them anything from cars to houses.but when I ask for one little thing all I hear is "are you gonna pay for that" or "you are cleaning the whole house when we get home" or just a loud no.like I have been counting down the days till today the jonas brothers new cd came out so i told my Mom I wanted to buy it right after school august 12th and she said ok so ive been counting down the days for 2 months and today after school I'm so excited we walk into target I pick up the cd can't wait to check out I walk up to the basket put the cd in and were walking up front then for no reason my mom grabs the cd throws it at ME and runs out to the car leaving me standing in the store alone about to cry.I'm only 12 and my mom has always verbally and PHYSICALLY abused me she whips me with leather belts,slaps me,and very stops yelling.she tells me she hate me and lies a lot to everybody just to make me look dumb and she tells me all the time "I can't wait till you move out and I never want you to come back I dont know what is wrong with you you brothers were always so much better than you.it hurts so much and seeing all these happy families everywhere makes me so sad.like I said I'm only 12 but how can I not be so depressed?oh and my mom hasn't said a word to me since we were in target earlier.

Answer 1

Do you know what? Your story reminds me of Dave Pelzer's story. He's the author of "A Child Called It". He never really figured out why his mom hit him and not his brothers, but it had something to do with her own abusive childhood mixed with him being a loud kid(which is not wrong at all). She was psycho. And he got help. If you tell a social worker about this I'm sure you'll get help. You need to get away from there. And if you move to foster home, don't think that you won't have any contact with your mom. Because if you want to, you can. You can ask your school nurse(I think...) or school welfare officer for help. Here are some places you can turn to in need of help:

http://kidshealth.org/PageManager.jsp?li...

http://www.kidsincrisis-website.org/cont...

If you don't dare to talk to the people at your school, you can always talk to the people at th phone lines. They're there for you even if you just wanna talk. And make sure that the call doesn't show up on the phone bill because then you might get in trouble. If you're not sure, call from a phone booth or ask a friend who's aware of your problem(if someone is) if you can use their phone.

'Cause seriously, you can't stay in a situation like that. It's not okay! Even if you love your mom, she's obviously sick because that's not normal and both you and your mom need help. Just in different ways.

Feel better!

Answer 2

Please whatever you do, don't kill yourself, just don't. and i want to know if your brothers the same way to you, bossing you around or actually feel bad but can't do anything of fear. now if your whole family treats you bad then tell your aunt or uncle or grandparents or anyone that you know and trust that will listen and believes you. you need to get out of that house if

your parents and brothers are abusing you, because they aren't a real family to you. runaway to a family member that loves you a lot and will do anything to help you and believes you. but you have to tell someone. and then report it to the police. don't be scared because they'll help you. trust me. good luck. and please have a great life, don't try to kill yourself. and don't feel sad, because a mom like that is not a true mom.

Answer 3

wow and i thought i had it bad my dad hates me and hes hit me many times (and hes a strong dude) im the eldest of 3 brothers so im the one that gets blamed for everything etc so i really feel for you. as for your mother (*****!! sorry had to be said) umm try approaching her through someone else like your brothers or dad find out whats wrong with her so you can talk. your parents could be having problems like money wise or could be something your two young to understand. Just try not to let this stuff get you down hang out with your mates or your siblings and let your mum come to you after all your only 12, for me my brothers and i all hate my dad even though they get the happy treatment from him i just get on with it. My dad youst to hit my mum alot and mum did similiar stuff to yours (kinda) but im not saying thats happening here. also find out if this ever happened to any of you bros find out how they dealt with it. chin up kid ;) (btw yeah i say mUm i live in the UK lol)

Answer 4

holy c**p ur mom sounds physco!!!! i think u should tell somebody about that like a teacher or something because that sounds horrible. maybe she thinks ur a rebellious teenager just like my mom thinks about me but my  mom is not that crazy. if she just whips u with leather belts and slaps u then thats normal if ur greek lol. but if she does anything more than that then u seriously need to tell an other adult about this cuz thats rlly bad.

Answer 5

first of all dont kill yourself or get yourself into trouble.

be extremely nice to your parents for at least a week. dont ask for anything and do what they even if you dont like it. dont show attitude and do something good to make them happy, like get a letter from your teacher that you did well in school (a casual friendly letter, ask your teacher to do that if you do something good, tell him/her to put only good things)

if they stay happy, get on their nerves just a little bit.

and make a plan. like leave your door room open and cry on your bed so when your brother walks by they hear it and they would want to hear why you are crying. say that they get everything and you dont. and make them tell this to your parents.

or u can make a different plan similar to that but first let your brothers see that you are crying or you are sad and then let them tell your parents so they be nice to you.

Answer 6

OMG...thats s0o0o0o messed up you cant just let her do that stuff im 13 n I cant imagine tht happening next time she hits you or anything you have to tell someone go to the police....tell someone in your family anything...

Im so sorry:.(

~hop3 I h3lp3d~

Answer 7

Wow. I'm sorry about all that. I think you need to report your mom and dad to CPS. It's a child protection place where you can report your parents if they abuse you. They might take you away and put you with a foster family. But I guess it's for the best. Please don't run away, don't kill yourself. Just report your parents to someone like your aunt grandparents uncles, or evan better the CPS. It's the best I know I mentioned it earlier. I hope you make it through. Or you can sit down with her and talk to her. Tell her how it makes you feel.

Answer 8

Maybe you should talk to your mom