I hate my life?!!!!????

Question

Ok, so my brother is 10 and im almost 15, he verbally and physically abuses me. My dad sometimes verablly bullies me too only it is not as bad. My brother throws balls at me and tries to break my computer and make me feel so self conscious and insecure. I feel like im going to blow up! I don't retaliate b/c i know i will be the 1 to get in trouble. I put on this tough girl exterior but im really just crumbling. nothing will get my brother to stop. my parents don't ususally do anything about it either. i know I have a great life compared to others, my dad works very hard and we are able to get whatever but i would rather be middle class than be upper middle class with a life like mine. what would you do. i need some advice!

Answer 1

talk to a consuler at school

Answer 2

hiya i'm 14 and my brother is 11 ...!!! he does the exact same thing to me so for a whole day i did what he does to me and now he's stoped ....!!!! if he's only 10 aren't you stronger than him ....??

Answer 3

tell your parents. or you could scar your brother for life so he would kill himself.

Answer 4

All you can really do is sit your parents down for a serious talk .. if you don't think that will work .. write them a letter! I used to do this with my mother all the time because that way she has to hear me out completely and can't interrupt to argue with me. Try it out and see if it works .. let them know EXACTLY how you feel and what this is doing to you in your letter. This should get their undivided attention. Hopefully they will stop siding with your brother and help you out. Good luck babe!

Answer 5

calmy sit down with your dad and talk to him about it. dont just run up to him all angry and mad right after your brother buggs you. cause he'll probably think YOU do something to your brother that bothers him, so he buggs you back.

your almost 15. your brother is 10. hes a little squirt that thinks hes so cool and all that & tough. show him that hes NOT and your the bigger person. little kids are sooo annoying. i know how you feel, when he really buggs you do your best not to show it cause he does it just to get a reaction outta you & see that he is bugging you.

you could also talk to a counciler about what you could do to reduce that stuff.