I hate my mom and dad?

Question

...to the point of wanting to run away. They don't let me go anywhere, and it's summer. I can't hang out with my friends, I have to stay home all day and take care of my brother. When I say I want a job (i'm 14), my mom says Your stupid why would you want a job, i give you what you want. When in fact, she doesn't. When I want something, she says we're poor, no you can't have it. And so when I want a job, she says No You're too young, you have to focus on school. I got so mad because IT'S THE SUMMER! THERE IS NO SCHOOL. My parents are overprotective and extremely stupid. What should I do. I feel like a prisoner, I can't leave my house for even 5 minutes because they're scare I would get rape. What The F*ck??

They think they are the greatest, when they're not. They refuse to listen to what I have to say because they keep thinking they're the best parent in the world for keeping their daughter at home all day, and she say by doing that she's protecting me. My *** she is. Im miserable.

Answer 1

Omg, you are so ******* spoiled. You are extremely lucky to have parents who actually give a **** about you, so get the **** over it. Jeezus.

Answer 2

14 is young for a job. but you mom should be proud that u are wanting to work at such a young age.   you should have wayy more freedom then you have.

and as for the babysitting your brother thing.. i hate it whne parents do that. they made the chioce to have him so they shouldent rely on you to watch him.  you should try and sit down and talk to them about how you feel.

Answer 3

first of all do you have any idea how lucky you are? i know its hard to be a young teen but its normal to feel the way you do. i promise a few years from now you will look back on this and see you had it good.  money doesn't grow on trees hun, you can't always get what you want. there are teens your age who live in horrible places with parents who do drugs and get drunk all the time. what happends to their kids? they end up getting into drugs, going to prison or ending up DEAD. i am a corrections technician in a community corrections center and i work with adults 18-70 and some of these young adults come to us from a youth detention center. could you imagine living in a juvenile detention center at the age of 15 and then having to go to an adult institution?  and there you have no choices we tell you what to do, when to do it and how to do it. sound like your parents? wrong! you have YOUR bed, YOUR clothes, YOUR food and YOUR toys. my point is you have to appreciate what you have because you are very lucky to have parents who care about your safety. the bad parents are the ones who let there kids do what they want and never know where there kids are. what kind of love is that? think about that next time you feel like life is unfair. you will see in a few years what im talking about.

Answer 4

Look,

  I have epilepsy,and it took  a lot of work growing up to convince my mother to let me do things.She was always worried I was going to have a seizure.

So I bought a medical alert bracelet,made sure my mother knew the number to every place I went.In time she realized I wasn't going to have a seizure every time I walked out the door.

I think your mom means why would you want a job when I give you what you need.

When it comes to the job I started babysitting,and tutoring at 13.When I turned 16 I just went out,found a job,and then told my mother after I got hired.

Your problem is that you are fighting your parents,when you need to be working with your parents.

Answer 5

Why were you lookiing for ways to buy concert tickets yesterday if your parents don't let you go anywhere?

I am sure your parents love you. You shouldn't hate your parents, they are the only ones you got. and Hate is a very strong word.

Answer 6

Sadly....wecome to being a teen girl. you are still a child hun. Minus maybe babysitting you really can't get a job yet, at least not where I live you have to be 16.

I took care of my little sister when I was a teen, the rape fear is normal for any parent with a girl.

Just about every teen thinks their parents are horrible and so on, your not always going to get what you want. Welcome to life. You can have what ever you want when you turn 18, until then, suck it up.