I hate my my younger brother?

Question

He is 13, he is blond with curly hair and blue eyes and such an angel to everyone. I am the oldest of 3 (I have a younger sister who is 15)

My brother gets me in trouble with my parents all the time. Our father totally spoils him and he gets away with things I would never get away with (not even when I was his age)

He never hits him either while I get hit pretty much all the time. I get punished for everything and on top of that I get in trouble for him.

I bet this has something to do with the way we look. I have olive skin and dark hair and eyes and I don't look all that angelic.

My sister agrees with me. She doesn't get hit either because she is dad's little princess, but she is actually on my side so I don't have a problem with her. Sometimes I feel like she is the only one who actually loves me for real.

I don't know what to do with my brother. I tried different things, like beating him up (man, did that get me a beating from dad), talking to him nicely, begging him to just give me a break...

He is like a n**i soldier for dad, always tells on me even if i haven't done anything wrong, he just enjoys seeing me get in trouble. (and dad never questions him)

I even talked to mom and dad about it, but they are like I am the oldest and I have to set an example for my younger siblings and what doesn't kill me it will only make me stronger, blah, blah...

I am kind of used to being hit and ''spanked'' (it isn't really spanking anymore) - but I do hate being the only one who gets it. I am not about to start whining about this - but I do feel my parents don't love me as much as they love my brother and sister.

Is that even possible?

(I am 16)

Answer 1

just ignore your little brother, dont talk to him, dont play with him and dont touch him because he doesn't respect you. You guys are still young (so am i) and soon or maybe later you will just have a laugh about it with your little brother when you get older. Just dont get to the point where you want to kill him cause. BTW that happens in families. GOOD LUCK  

Answer 2

Lol, I like the way you write. I feel for you and agree with you. But you are 2 years away from being an adult so bear it all till you'll be able to go your own way... believe me when you will be out of there you won't hate your brother that much any more, give it 5 years (or ten) apart and things will smooth out a lot.

It was the same for me btw, I was fearless though. If my brother didn't leave me alone he'd get it and if I got beaten by my dad then my brother would get another one.

Soon my dad understood he'd better leave me alone as I was not stopping.

Answer 3

this is pathetic, i can't stand questions like these where the parents are always so unfair to a certain child. that love is very important.

i strongly suggest that you show your parents this question, because its thorough and you put alot details into it. one day your little brother is going to be disappointed all the time in life when he grows up, because his parents are the ones that are not setting the example, instead of his spoiled all the time and usually spoiled people are usually disappointed that they don't get their way all the time while being adults. if you will show them this question, just say "mom, dad, this is the only way i can reach you guys and i think the way you are treating me is not fair and i dont know how long i should live like this." if i were in  your shoes, i would do this.

Answer 4

You my dear need to stop being jealous and ignore the little t**d!! I was in the a similar situation. I am in my 30s now and we are very close and laugh about how he was a suck @ss. It is something that goes on in mostly every house. Btw when you give him that kind of attention it just makes it better for him..he gets a thrill out it. Just ignore him.