I hate my parents fighting, HATE IT, HATE IT, HATE IT!!!?

Question

neither of my parents talk to their parents because they don't like their inlaws. my mom fights with my dad about EVERYTHING! EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING! just stupid things.

and i, today, as a 14 year old, know that a 'broken heart' is not metaphoric. it is real. and i hate it SO MUCH!

THey just DONT stop yelling! i feel like running away somewhere, anywhere is better than this.

some of my distant friends are my neighbors.

all of our houses are REALLY close together, so you can hear EVERYTHING... like conversations, and even phones ringing from like 5 doors down because it is so quiet!!

my parents are SO loud. my mom always raises her voice when my dad tries to do anything for her... and my dad is a really good guy.

my dad doesnt look for sympathy.

the other day, my dad brought home tulips, my mom's favorite flower and a dozen roses home.

my mom got mad at him for spending too much money somewhere and threw them out.

but my mom isn't completely at fault either, but she kind of is. she's going crazy, and it's a really scary thought. she's just mad that we don't have any money for anything. it's really scary. and upseting.

i was so excited for my school starting in exactly 1 week, like really pumped...but now i'm down.

and when im depressed, i stay like that for at least two weeks. only nick jonas and his song 'a little bit longer' can cut that time down by a day or two.

Answer 1

i wish my parents would divorce bc then i could handle them fighting...it kills me that they act like everything is "ok" and then a week later its the same song and dance..my dad completely ignores my mom and acts like shes not alive and they always figh oiver stupid s**t..it hurt so f*****g much and i cant take it..at this point i wish theyd divorce bc this craps been going on for 15 years (im 15)

Answer 2

I just sat down at my computer to search for a discussion about fights because occasionally my parents fight too.

Im 14 and lonely, i have friends but i only see them at school and i know im closer to my parents than anyone else my age, but i often feel they dont understand that fighting never solves anything,,,but they say it does.

Its funny because when they are happy i remind them how it is when they fight and they laugh and joke about it. But its not funny because my dad gets really loud and almost violent.

Today, its a sunday, and my mom never really made food on the weekends because we usually go out, but now we're broke so we stay home. My dad is now on early retirement, so he's home all thew time. :(

He yells at her when she makes something he doesnt like, i remember in the past he would eat and enjoy it, but i think hes just doing this to make her feel bad because she worls really hard to please everyone in our family. He calls her names, then he starts again  with her mother and being just like her and not caring for him, and only thinking about herself and not him....It's sooooooo annoying,, sometimes i feel like just telling him to shut up!!!but i love my parents and i know that they love eachother just sometimes not as much....

The best thing to do is just breath....smile as you think about all the good things in life and your future away from them. Go to your happy place, think about people that make you happy. This is just life and s**t happens...remember all the people who dont have family....your parents love u im sure, so dont worry about them fighting, its just marriage. You'll fight with your husband when you get married. :) smile!!!!! and be happy. peace. <3

Answer 3

 My freaking parents fight over the stupidest thing EVER!!! Like two days ago a Tuesday my dad got a day off and my mom went to drop off us right and my dad got mad because my mom arrived at 8:45 a.m. My mom and my dad rarely fight but i hate when they do because they ignore each other for days or weeks and i really don't like when they fight.Because I'm always caught in the middle. Sometimes i cry because they don't talk at all i love my parents but when they fight it's like it affects my brothers and sister.It takes them days or weeks to get to talk especially like these types of fights.

     I don't know what to do sometimes i wish that they didn't have to fight .I know they love each other but i try to avoid being with them I stay in my room.And each day i cannot wait to go to school get away from them until they talk again.Right now they haven't talked for 2 days what do i do???? Plzzz help I'm so sad and were having finals next week i can't study because of all this it's all i can think about the fight. WHAT DO I DO?????

Answer 4

i hate when my parents fight. they can solve their problems by mutual understandings so that the lives of their children does not effect but i dont know why they fight. i feel like to run away from home when they start all this. now tomorrow m having exam. its very important for my carrier but now i cant study. everything is just slipping out of my mind. i wish they could live togather with love, mutual understanding & a sense of sacrifice....i wish.........

 

Sam

Answer 5

Some Parents FIGHT it's Really Hard To Handle Them When we Want To try to handle Them They'll be Like "It's An Important NEWS" It Feels Sad And My Parent's Fight... Always About my sister Like Some award winning.... Her Birthday......And Like Lots & Lots Well my Mom Screams. Mostly the time But my dad.. Is Quiet and Screams Lightly... WOW... And Like..... It Feels Sad Like You feel like Something bad might happen when something... Like My Dad said i'll Talk To your mom about this... I KNOW they would Fight I can't stop them Because My Mom is Hard to handle Very....... Want to entertain people Which i don't feel Sad  I want To Know For some Help.. Im Away  With my dad ... but he comes Every monthes AnD THIS day is November , 2010 where I can here Lots Of fighting Over their Hahahaha ..... But yes I Can try to Help You here are some ideas

Try To Really Tell Your mom/dad How you feel (I Tried that My dad said Sorry)

try to Not go on the sutuation..... Or Maybe Something Bad will Happen

AND THE BIGGEST IDEA IS..... Pray To god (I TRIED THAT MY DAD AND MOM STOP FIGHTING THANK YOU GOD) SO Pray =D Thats The Idea I wanna gIve you =D

Answer 6

my parents are fighting right in front of me :'(

I'm only thirteen and it feels like my world is crumbling

my dad is so crazy and messed in his head.. his words are like poison. he's such a f*****g mama's boy and he's EXPLODING

my mum is a victim of his bullying and now she's going CRAZY!! They're screaming so hard right now.

They have such a bad relationship

my sister is leaving for university next month so it'll just be me, mum, dad, and my grandma WHO LIVES WITH US >:'( HOW AM I GOING TO SURVIVE?????????

STOP IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it looks so bad my dad looks like he might turn abusive one day... :'(

it's so scary.

Answer 7

omg im not 14, but im 12 , and my parents fight freaking all the time!
Today, they freakin fight about stupid stuff!,i hate this !i just wanna scream my head off!!!,ive been thru this since i was a baby !!!
god , only somehow it would stop!!!!
SOMEONE HELP ME!, i feel the same way u feel


-Kathleen.

Answer 8

It's just hard when your parents fight... I'm 15 and with divorced parents, but my mum and her new guy fights ALOT.

But I, after years of fighting and two psychic breakdowns, found the guts to talkt to my mum about it. What's even worse is that most of their fights started with me doing something wrong, and mum's new guy got pissed and mum thinks he's to hard. So I really felt like they would get a divorce, because of me. It was HORRIBLE! I told my mum that she would try not to interfiere, even thought it would be hard for her as well, and let me handle my own fight (me having a fight is alot better than them having a fight about me, and I really don't care what people think about me anymore), and the fights are more rare now (they're still there...)...

Maybe you can do something, find the "cause" of the fight and try to deal with it? One very important thing is to talk about it (I HATE talking about things, but you really have to...), and if it was money problems it was about then maybe you should get a job, nothing big just a little extra cash?