I hate my pregnant 14 year old sister?

Question

Well...Basically i have had enough of my younger sister. i'm nearly 17 and she is 13 , coming 14. This will probably make me sound like a moan,,but she is so annoying. Although I party quite alot and have the odd drink ( like the majority of people my age), she takes things to a whole new level. As soon as she turned 13, she started smoking, just to look cool, now everytime we're alone she does it and purposely blows it in my face to annoy me. she takes drugs , and drinks during school etc. I have no idea why she is like this, as my parents have brought us all up EXTREMLEY well. ( I have two older brothers, one who is a doctor and one still in Uni) and we go went/go to the same grammar school. She really upsets my parents as they try their best to stop her doing all of this. and have punished her so many times ,I tried to block her out and ignore her, but now she's just told me today that she's pregnant because of several drunken nights of unprotected s*x and doesn't know the dad

Answer 1

She is going to tell someone fairly soon about the pregnancy because she is going to have to face the consequences and decisions will have to be made about the baby.

Answer 2

OMG, tell ur parents riight away

Answer 3

Tell your mom. Your sister brought this upon herself, and even though she doesn't want you to, you'll be helping her immensely.

Maybe this situation will knock some sense into her and she'll stop acting so ridiculous before she ruins her teen years.

She'll realize she doesn't want the best years of her life completely thrown away and will regret what she's done.

Answer 4

tell your parents

Answer 5

She doesn't care that she hurts your parents, you and the family.  Now, she's pregnant and probably drinking and smoking so she's harming her baby too.  You need to tell your parents.  Who cares if she gets mad at you.  What is she going to do?  Not talk to you?

Answer 6

You need to tell your mum NOW!!!

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Answer 7

tell your mum, theres no way she can hide it from them!

she`s irresponsible, childish and hasnt got a clue basically, shes played with fire and got burnt, you being older have to take the first step and tell your parents, or tell her to tell them asap!  force her to tell them she has too, she is going to need to do some growing up quickly! maybe you can talk to one of your older brother tell them all what shes been up to and et them to have a chat with her about all her behaviour. seems to me she hasnt been disciplined properly and been alloud to get away with alsorts, shes 14 and shouldnt have been going out to partys, etc. now she is going to have to pay for her bad behaviour but dont let the baby pay tell your parents for the babys sake!

Answer 8

she's a child! tell your parents immediately, her behaviour is unacceptable and she has an unborn child that needs to be thought of...

Answer 9

yes you should tell so she can start going to the doctor and getting prenetal vitamins besides your mother needs to know

Answer 10

even if ur sister said not to tell ur mom...if i were u i would any way..it sounds like she needs some help and maybe if you tell your mom she can get some help..good luck!

Answer 11

She's trying to create an identity for herself. She wants to be an individual. She sees you as the "goody goody" of the family (whether or not you are is a different matter). So, that role is already taken. She has an older brother who is a doctor, so the "smart kid" role is already taken. She wants to excel at something, so she's trying to be the rebellious child.

Basically, she has low self esteem and doesn't think she can live up to the rest of her family, so she's going for the other extreme.

Answer 12

You have to talk to an adult, your sister's situation is very dangerous becuase of her age and her drinking and smoking problem. Go to the doctor quick and tell your parents.

By the way, please keep the baby, having an abortion isn't a good option unless it might harm your sister's life, if she doesn't want the child, give the baby in adoption. Good luck and hope the best for her and your family!

Answer 13

Tell your mom.  If she hides it, she's not gonna get the attention she need for the baby (no sonograms or check ups to make sure the baby is healthy).  You're mom is gonna find out eventually, the thing is gonna' have to pop out sometime.  And please, for the baby's sake, try to help her stop smoking and drinking.

Answer 14

I never say this but tell your mum and drag her diseased *** to the 'clap clinic'. She should have a termination.

She's a stupid attention seeking idiot.

Well done to you for trying, but now its up to your parents to deal with her. Its not your fault in anyway honey.

Answer 15

tell her this is real life no second chance and that she is a brat who needs to sort her self out then tell ur mum and tell her that there are people who cant have kids and that she can but doesnt know how lucky she is  and i feel sorry for the baby the way your sister sounds makes me sick

Answer 16

tell ur mum yourself. she is too stupid and immature to have a baby.

Answer 17

You need to tell your/her parents!

Answer 18

TELL! Save her and the child growing inside of her. Please tell.

Answer 19

Please...tell your Parents.

Answer 20

get her to confide in your mum, if she wont then offer to go to the doctors with to find out what her options are. depending on your faith, upbringing etc.

Answer 21

I think you deffinantly need to tell your mother.

They way your sister sounds and acts is unstable, and she could take things into her own hands. for exp if she tried to give herself an abortion.

I think your mother deffinantly needs to be informed right away, even if it means that you tell her.

Your sister is going through a phase that could eventually lead into a lifestyle, and at age 13 there is still time to reverse that.

So talk to your mother and get help for your sister, because despite the fact that she is annoying, you know you love her and only want the best for her :]

Answer 22

Firstly tell you mum this is too big to handle on your own, she may hate you for it but she is going to need medical checks and looking after and you should not have to do it.

Just go downstairs and tell your parents don't try handling it on your own as she is just being selfish to you and the rest of your family.

You don't need her c**p leave it to your parents to sort out

Answer 23

drive her to the abortion clinic

Answer 24

I can understand the anger and frustration you are going through right now.  My younger Sister ended up acting out and doing things she shouldn't have done and also ended up pregnant at a very young age.  Even though she was acting out I never had to deal with her smoking and blowing that in my face to annoy me, but she did plenty of things to annoy me.  Your sister is so young, and frankly very stupid right now.  She can't see the harm she is doing to herself, your family, and now even her unborn child.  She is refusing to accept responsibility and deal with life now.  Her telling you now puts you in a nasty position which I was also in.  I was faced with keeping my sister's secrets.... or telling.  I chose to tell my Mom, and my sister was pissed.  Frankly she was mad at me for a very long time.  My Mom cried and was angry to, and it took months before they would be nice to each other.  But my sister needed my Mom and her help, she needed me and my support.  Eventually she got over it, and even thanked me for telling.  She decided to keep her baby which has been a huge struggle, but it forced her to be responsible and grow up.  I am so sorry that you are facing this situation in life right now, but please know you have to do the right thing, and you are not alone.

Answer 25

If that's the way she treats you, it's time for payback.

Go and tell your parent's EVERYTHING you just told us.

Doesn't matter how much she will hate you after that, believe me. She will be mean and stuff, but just 'f*ck her life up by telling them her secret', and acctualy you will be rescuing both of your asses. They otherwise will punish you for hidding it, and her for not telling.

Answer 26

tell your mother.  She's way to young and shouldn't be doing any of the stuff you say she is.  I hate abortions but that might be what your mom will make her do.  I baby doesn't deserve that kind of mother.  That baby will die of a broken heart.

And -cuteolegy101-!  This kind of stuff can happen!

Telling your mom is a good thing.  They'd find out soon anyway if you told or not.

Answer 27

tell her that if she doesnt tell your mum then you will...give her say 24hours and then if she still hasnt told you are going to have to say something becaus she could be ruining her whole llife this may sound strange coming from a 14yr old but you need to stay strong

good luck to you, your sister and the rest of your family x

Answer 28

you need to tell your mom asap so your sister can get help so she don't hurt the baby with the drinking,drugs and smoking do what is right not what your sis asks

Answer 29

Tell your mum for your sister's sake, she needs help before she goes right off the rails (worse than she is now)

Answer 30

Hun. You def need to tell your parents. For her health and safety too. Think, If you were in the same boat as her when you were that young you would want to get help but would be scared. Do it for her. She may not want it but in the long run it will get better. She may not have ruined her life. She is still young, She can get better. Just take action. :] good luck hun.

Answer 31

Tell! Tell! Please for the sake of her childhood tell!!!