I hate myself, lost and helpless?

Question

I just feel so lost and helpless right now

Im so ugly, im fat, my skin is nasty, my hair is broken and gross... i have no friends

i dont know who i am, im not good at anything, nobody has ever liked me, i dont know if ill ever get married

my mom is unsupportive of me; all my ONE friend does is brag; i have no life

my mom doesnt care about me; she doesnt care that i feel unconfident and unloved

im just feeling really miserable right now.... nobody will help me i just feel so lost

sorry this isnt a question, just a rant, but i really need to get this off my chest

i just feel so worthless

Answer 1

your avatar doesn't look bad , don't worry be happy

Answer 2

The only way to get out of that kind of situation is to change the way you think. You can't always rely on other people to give you self-esteem - they have their own problems. You need to start caring more about yourself. Take small steps in the right direction. Make the decision to eat healthier and do more exercise - even if it's just getting outside in the fresh air each day for a walk - it will make you feel better. Look for some new friends - smile more often. Do some things that you've never done before. Be positive. Be brave. Tell yourself that life IS worth living and that you are going to enjoy it. Good things will start to happen. :-)

Answer 3

sounds like you have a crappy friend putting you down like that. and your mum needs to wake up to herself. as far as marriage goes, i believe that there is someone for everyone, you just need to lighten up, let yourself know that your a person with feeling too and everyone deserves to love and be loved. have you spoken to your doctor about the depression? and he could probly give you a cream for your skin. see your hairdresser for hair advice then go out and spoil yourself. cheer up sunshine nothing is that bad that it can't be fixed. i am a cristian girl who everything was wrong in my life, since i went to church, my life has been stable, i now know people who care and will be there through anything and accept me for me. i was a cow of a teenager and had 2 kids by the time i was 18. life will get better you just need to  ask for help.

Answer 4

Go Joe Flee....., yeah! Took my answer for me. I go to a Pentecostal church, not only do you find God, but everyone there is just so great and nice, well, close enough. As for your skin, try not drinking milk. I've had acne 4evah! and that helped a lot.  

Answer 5

I used to feel the same way hon.I found the LORD loves me and wants what is best for me.HE is not a magic wish genie, but HE is the best friend I ever had.MAde me see all the areas in my life I needed to improve on and has helped me.HE knows everything bad about me and love me in spite of it!

As far as your hair, just wash it,let it dry on its own,no mousses or gles or hair sprays.

Get some skin cleanser and use that,no makeup because it clogs the pores.

Visit church sometime,the United Pentecostal churches are great and you wil make friends there who care about you hon.

By the way,JESUS loves yout oo hon.

Answer 6

I'm sorry, but no one is going to want to BE your friend with an attitude like that.

d**n, teen depression is like the new epidemic!

Answer 7

You really need a shrink. Not to be rude, but that is not healthy. It can't be that bad. all of those things can be fixed. go get your hair done. fix everything little by little. You are not worthless.  

Answer 8

Hunny sometimes life doesnt go the way people want it to go.

You need to remember that nobody is perfect and that at one point or another everyone will feel like this, even if its just for an hour. Life has its ups and its downs, even though things dont feel right for you at the moment, things will get better in the future. Try to look past all the faults you think you have and just see yourself for the good. I have had my fair amount of days like the one it sounds like your having, and trut me, it does get better. I hope you feel better soon, chin up :)

Answer 9

hey hun!

if you need to talk to someone i am here for you.

i know of someone who battled the same things.

im me on yahoo messengers on [e-mail]

Answer 10

Don't hate yourself. Keep trying to Improve! Everyday starts a good day and somehow you could keep it that way. I see where you are coming from and I had a strip of depression for about a year and got through it you could do it sooner.

Answer 11

its ok, dont be too down. everyone feels miserable sometime or another. why dont u have friends? maybe u cud change to get them or if you are really shy then try to talk to people and make friends, maybe as a new goal for this year. i assume i am around your age but i dont know. could you talk to your dad if your mom is unsupportive? if you want to become more thin you could try working out or going for runs and you could change your hairstyle and if you like acting try out for the school play. do what you want to do and dont worry what people think because if you do what you want to do it will make you happy. if you have relatives that you could talk to like your aunt about clothes, hair, etc and about how your mom treats you that would be good i hope this has helped at least some, good luck! im sorry 4 u!  

Answer 12

Be happy that you are alive and healthy and that you actually have clothes to wear.

Their are people that have nothing to eat, nothing to wear, war is ravaging their country and they can't even go outside without risking their lives.

I think your just having a bad day. People feel fat and ugly sometimes but usually their not, their just feeling bad.

But if you REALLY feel like that try to just improve your appearance a little, work out, try new products. (if your mom doesn tbuy you stuff, ask you friend to loan you some products, or get a job.) Join a free club at your school to make friends.

Your just a teen of course you don't know who you are yet! No one does really when their teen. Discover new things about yourself and just keep trying to improve your life and relationship with your mom.