I hate school soo much im failing three classes my mom is always crying what can i do?

Question

I hate school soo much im failing three classes my mom is always crying what can i do?

Answer 1

OK here is how is show go down.

You  start studying, get off the computer and start a life of school and growing up.

You really will the stuff you learn in school when you are older.  Spelling words correct when typing and not having to rely on spell check, using words over 4 letters long, knowing how to follow directions of a map, or other things.

I know i am the one that started that question... When will I ever need any of this stuff?  Well my teachers could not tell me. ..so let me tell you.  "The day you get out of school and get into the real life you will need all the stepping stones you learned in school so you do not sink into the muck of the world and get lost."

School gives you a good solid foundation to stand on as you keep on learning and moving forward.  Keep moving on down your yellow brick road and learn more along the way.  You need to learn something new each day to broaden your horizons.

Answer 2

study

try harder

talk to your counselor about tutoring or alternative classes

(i am assuming you are another publicschooler miscategorizing your questions, homeschool students simply do not flunk)

get the revelation that you can hate school and still pass

stop making your mom cry

Answer 3

Sounds like it's time for a change.  Ask your parents to send you to school.  Perhaps being around your equally miserable peers will help your grades go up.  It worked for my home schooled cousins.  They just couldn't take it when they got high-school age.  Their parents finally sent them to public school.  It didn't change them into bad teenagers either.  It just brought their grades up and gave them friends.  My mom wouldn't let me go, but she's an unreasonable, religious fanatic.  (You can see home school gave me a great vocabulary, and a fine sense of sarcasm.)

Answer 4

First step is for you and your Parents to speak with your counselor.

If you can not resolve it, check out the www.k12.com website for alternative school options.

Home school students do flunk as they must pass all federal and local mandated test as well.

Answer 5

i know it may seem like a **** load to start it up and be a ***** but you HAFTA study study study!! also do extra credit .. you'll start getting the hang on of after a while and it'll come naturally to you :-)

Answer 6

well i think that instead of spending time online you could spend it studying and you could ask ur mom or older bro/sis 2 help and it could make ur mom happy wht r the subjects u need help with? u could go for tuts. an dmake ur mom happy by a tleast trying

Answer 7

I hate it too, but I still try hard to pay attention and do all my work. Just try to stay focused, which I know can be really hard to do when bored out of your mind.

Answer 8

ever thought about what you might be doing wrong and what you can do to help your mom and yourself in school? go to church thats what i can say!

Answer 9

In those three classes, is there something you don't understand?  If so, ask questions.  It is the teacher's job to explain so you do  understand.  And the teacher will be pleased to see you showing interest.  Don't give up yet !!

Answer 10

May I add something the others haven't? Have you ever been tested for learning disabilities?

My son did fine pre-school & head start then started showing problems. Though put in a special class it didn't help much. It turned out among other things he had dyslexia & a visual problem though 20/20 vision that it took a specialist to find.

Something isn't computing right if it's only 3 classes. The most common classes for learning disabilities are reading, english & math. With those 3 problems it makes the other classes more difficult than need be.

I could probably answer better with you grade in school and the classes you're failing.

Learning disabilities don't make you dumb. In some ways my son is one of the sharpest people I've ever known. But things have to be explained to him differently for him to grasp them. Once he does it sticks and he does fine.

Your mom stressing out with the tears don't help matters either. When I'd get emotional it became harder for him to retain what he was being taught because he hated upsetting me. So he'd try harder only to end up more frustrated. If it was just a simple matter of studying harder anyone could do it.

When my husband was in college I could question him on anything he was learning & he knew it inside out. But would take tests or be asked questions in class and his mind would go blank or the answers would get all mixed up in his head. My son was the same way. Once he was diagnosed and a treatment plan created he thrived after being held back for a couple of years he ended up graduating on time.

If you know you're trying your best and it's not working you need to find out why. If you e-mail me I could go into it better. Hope this helps.

Answer 11

see counselors for you both.

Answer 12

Change your attitude!  Maybe go see the school counselor. He/she may have some good ideas.

Answer 13

Try to get extra help from teachers and even though you hate it try your best. I am in college and at times hate school to but in the end I know I need to finish it try my best to do well. If you do your mom might not cry anymore.

Answer 14

well depends SOMETIMES it is a good idea to switch schools

Answer 15

Suck it up and be strong and don't be lazy. Your mom is crying probably because she's worried about you and your education. It's important, you should get your education so when you are older, you can get a job or do whatever you want. You'll be glad you did, you don't want to be some old guy living off what you get from working at a fast food restaurant do you? (no offense to anyone, I meant this if you don't get an education) Then life will be all the more harder and you'll regret it. School can be fun if you try, especially if it's a good environment. :]

Answer 16

Who ever said you were supposed to love school? The key is to change your perspective. Doing well in school doesn't have anything to do with whether you like it or not. It's a decision to do the work, get it done, succeed. If you desperately needed a job and the only job you could get was a janitorial position and you HATED it, would you not do the work? Of course not. You need the job. Just like you need your schooling.

If you asked this in the homeschool section because you are interested in homeschooling, then look into it more. Find out about the laws where you live, find out about online programs or just regular homeschooling, talk to some homeschool groups, and, of course, talk to your mom.

If your mom is always crying, then it sounds like she's depressed. Perhaps the two of you have some tough stuff going on, or perhaps just her? If her crying has nothing to do with you, then really do your best to get her to talk to somebody. If she can't pay for a counsellor, pastors and priests are usually very open to having people come in and talk. If it has to do with you failing school, then you'll just have to accept that she's an emotional person. Do well in school for YOU. You're worth it.

Answer 17

learn some skill ... creat urge to learn... if u need help with your studies ask for it.. write to me [e-mail]

will do my best to help you..

take care God has blessed everyone with talent...

Answer 18

Why do you hate school? Peer pressure? Tough classes? Mean teachers? You need to find the reason and deal with it. School really isn't all that bad. You do your work, come to class, meet people, and get a good education that will help carry you through life.

What you can do, is make an effort to work harder. Go to tutoring programs, ask a friend for help, work with the teacher to help you get better grades in your classes. As for your mom, talk with her. Tell her why you're having problems. And try to get her to help you.

I wish you good luck! Succeeding in school is certainly important. =]

Answer 19

I hated school as well when I was there. I am a pretty realistic person though so I thought about it like this: If I waste my time and fail a class I will only have to retake it and the only thing worse than having to actually do the work once, is having to do it a 2nd time.

Study, pay attention and do your best. Your mom really wants you to be a well educated and prepared young adult for when you go out in the world and have to provide a living for yourself and possibly a family!

Good luck!!

Answer 20

First of all it is not your responsibility that your mom is always crying!  She has problems and should get help for them.   There is a lot worse than failing a few classes.  It is very dangerous for parents to make their children "emotionally responsible" for their parents.  Children have enough emotional turmoil of their own to deal with.  The song "Because of You" is alll about a child who was raised up in an unfair situation, by a weak mother.. its on utube .. have a listen.

I do suggest you stay in school and do your best.. also Highly recommend you see a counsellor regarding your own stresses, why you hate school so much and what kind of pressure you are under from home.

Your mom should also seek counselling.  Her issues are Not your fault!

Take care of you, please stay in school and do your best and please love yourself.. learn what it is to be your own best friend and Never let anyone treat you less than.  

btw .. crying won't hurt anyone .. sometimes its actually a healing thing..

All the best.

jj