I hate s*x. What's wrong with me?

Question

I have a kid and even before her I wasn't that fond of having s*x. I have no desire to have s*x and sometimes when I do, it's painful. People think that i'm crazy and don't understand me. And honestly, I don't understand it myself. I think that this was the main problem in my last relationship and I don't know what to do to fix it.

Answer 1

you might be asexual.

Answer 2

I would see a doctor bcause u could have a problem down town.also i would get some p**n videos or what ever turns you on get a couple of toys and figure out by ur self 1st what feels good and what doesnt then introduce that into ur relationships.  

Answer 3

Go to a doctor and see if there is any physical reason for your pain during s*x.  Also get some hormone levels done as low levels could be the reason for the low s*x drive.  If everything comes back normal, then a psychiatrist may be next.  You just may be one of those people that don't particularly enjoy or want s*x, no reason you can't live your life without it.  

Answer 4

yea ya think? go see a doctor let them check you hormone levels.

Answer 5

If you haven't seen a doctor for this the you problem is not that serious but if it is act now, don't let it ruin your relationship, and make sure you see a therapist for this problem.

Answer 6

I would see a psychologist. The pain you have could be coming from your body tensing up as a result of your burning want not to have s*x. It sounds like you are fully capable to with no problems, the issue is just finding out why you do not enjoy it. Whether it be the partner that you're with, something traumatic or even negative stigma that may have been taught to you when you were younger. It could be for any number of reasons. Seriously consider a therapist to get to the root of your problem.