I hate this family!!!

Question

im a shy person, whenever i talk to stranger, i felt nervous, cant follow up the conversation, and in my family, they never gives a dime to me, i work in family restaurant making sushis, and sometime they insult me for no reason, i really dont want to live my life like that, i have no idea wat am i going to do in my life.......and im almost 18

Answer 1

dont worry. lots of family are like that.

and be yourself. thats very important.

this is your time to shine. dont let ANYONE bring you down.

this is YOUR time to shine.

this is YOUR time to figure out what YOU wanna do.

have fun. have faith. and youll suceede.

good luck :]

Answer 2

well you need to figure out what YOU want in life before anything. and try to accomplish your goal. and don't worry about family, ALL families are like that.  

Answer 3

I used to be very shy, so I know where you are coming from.   Can you find a different place to work?  I used to do housekeeping (work by myself cleaning hotel rooms).  I would go to college at night.  College helped me be less shy......and gave me hope that someday I would have a good paying job and be my own boss.   If your family verbally abuses you, maybe trying to find another job might be a good start.  Then sign up for some classes at a local college and try to figure out what kind of career you want.   I love working with kids.   I am still shy sometimes, but kids have a way of cheering me up!

I hope you have some friends that you can talk to.   You can always answer and ask questions on Yahoo Answers for company.  Most of the comments here are pretty positive.

I think if you are taking steps to get yourself out of your situation....it might help you ignore the verbal abuse.   Then when you have a new job......you can quit.   Nothing wrong in telling people to stop calling you names and that they are verbally abusing you!

Also anxiety disorders can cause some of your symptoms...if it is getting worse, I would speak to a doctor!   There is help for that.....you shouldn't have to suffer.

Good luck friend.......see you on Yahoo boards.

Answer 4

1. if its your family then that against the law

2.talk to them i know its your family but come out of your shell

3.if it isnt your family then tell them that you dont appreciate this and get your money!put a lawsuite on then

good luck