I hate when people go .. well that sucks you should of used protection!?

Question

im 16 and pregnant. at first i was scared and i didnt know what to do but now im having my baby and im excited. next year im going to a school for pregnant and parenting teens and ill learn how to be a medical assitant or cosmetologist.. and im going to be fine. im getting support from my family even though the exboyfriend left, i can do it and i think of this baby as a blessing and im excited :) What would you say if someone told you, SUCKS! yous shoulda used a condom...

Answer 1

if they say "you should've used a condom" say "your parents should have too, but I'm not complaining." At least you are being responsible about your actions.

*~AMBER~*

Answer 2

Well, first congrats to you for making the right decison and sticking to you and knowning you want to continue your education! Second, i think that our world today should be used to teens getting pregnant becuase they are getting younger and younger every year. but no matter what you are always going to get that reaction out of people. people tend to open their mouths when its not needed (i am gulity too). If i were in your postion i would just tell them what you just told us. That you are being an adult about it and that you are going to make the best of the sitiuation.  Good luck and again i am a proud stranger that you are making the right choices!

Answer 3

same thing happened to me i was sixteen, and me and my bf had s*x (with a condom but it broke) and we got pregnant, that was three years ago and my baby girl is wonderful her name is Rooke, and since then i have had a boy Named owynn ten months ago, and im 6 1/2 months with triplets! if you neede some1 to talk to email me at [e-mail]

congrats your going to b a great mom!!

roxy

Answer 4

I am a young parent myself, (18 years old and have a 16 month old daughter) and I've found that sometimes it's just better to ignore all the rude comments and looks that people tend to give. As long as you are taking care of your child and ensuring that they will have the best life possible then you are doing your best and it doesn't matter what other people think. Children are a blessing, and even though going to college full-time is a bit more difficult with her I wouldn't trade her for anything in the world.

Good luck!

Answer 5

I'd probably say, "Yes you are right, i should have".

Answer 6

I completely agree I'm 16 and just had a baby and it is the biggest blessing I could of asked for. I hear all the time how young I am and how I should've had more sense, but I believe everything happens for a reason. Good Luck. Congrats!

Answer 7

Tell them that i'm blessed to have been able to get pregnant. How many people in this world can't get pregnant on their own? And yes even though you are sixteen and pregnant you have tons of support which makes all the world of difference.  My mom got pregnant at sixteen and I'm glad she did because I wouldn't have my wonderful big brother.  But she had the full support of her family and my mom told me that if I ever got pregnant she would have fully supported me.

Answer 8

I had my daughter when I was 16.  She is now 14 years old and will be going to highschool in September.  While I love her dearly and wouldn't change a thing, there is A LOT of things you miss out on when you are a young mom.  

The stresses you deal with, the friends who don't understand and the fact that doing things takes longer than it would if it was just you.  I wish you all the luck in the world and remember to be the best mom you can be.

You will hear people say that you should have used a condom, because they are thinking "What if that was me?".  Or they are being rude and think you can't handle it.

It's just a blessing that you only ended up pregnant and not with a disease.  Please be careful in the future, you will have someone else depending on you now.

Answer 9

Id be like ... Well, yes maybe I should have, but Im glad I didnt because if I did than I wouldnt have this blessing.

I can tell your going to be a good mom ♥

Answer 10

I completely agree with you ! I cant understand why those people bother answering if they are just going to judge. They are just bored people with nothing else to do but condemn other people! So in answer to your question i wouldn't say anything to them i would just ignore them, and get on with your own life and look forward to the birth of your beautiful baby! Good luck in school next year it will be people like you that will help other teens desperate for advice.