I have 13 year old son .he is a layer what should i do with him?

Question

I have 13 year old son .he is a layer what should i do with him?

Answer 1

layer? ....

Answer 2

Put him in a freak show. What color are his eggs?

Answer 3

Learn to spell. Then you can talk to him about telling lies.

Answer 4

I think you mean 'liar' - or someone who does not tell the truth.  Compulsive lying can be a symptom of a psychological disorder.  First, have him evaluated by a pediatric psychologist.  Perhaps he is afraid of telling the truth - maybe he fears your disapproval or is afraid of punishment for doing something 'wrong.'  For sure you need to have a heart-to-heart talk with him.  Assure him of your love and let him know that you know he is lying and ask him what you can do to help him overcome this problem.  If he does not correct his behavior at this age he is going to be in serious trouble in the future.  Honesty is to be prized above almost all else.  Even 'little white lies' have consequences . . . it gets easier and easier to lie with practice.  Have him start with you - telling you the truth at all times even though the truth might hurt - give him permission to be honest by not punishing him when you hear things you don't like.  Lying can lead to crime - to stealing, etc.  So you are right to be concerned and to take action now.

Answer 5

You probably hit the wrong keys and you met "liar"  at the age of 13, they tend to see what they can get away with.  Every time he lies to you, make sure he is punished in some manner- usually take away his computer time, or going to a friends, something that has meaning but not for a long period of time, or send him to his room until he confesses the truth, and the first few times you do that, he prolly will be there until the next day, he will get the jiff of it - hang in there, and teach him the right way now before it gets out of control.  Good Luck!

Answer 6

I'm guessing you mean "liar".  Does he not know the importance of telling the truth?  Every time he tells you a lie, give him a lecture about the importance of telling lies to you.  I tell my kids that I wouldn't be able to help them when they needed help if they lie to me all the time.  I tell them that I have to be able to trust them, and they have to be able to trust me.  I don't tell them lies, and they don't tell me lies.  Oh they might tell a little white lie now and then, but when it comes down to business, they don't lie to me.  I have also told them that it doesn't matter what they have done, if they lie to me they will be punished for telling the lie more so that for what they have done.  My kids are 12 & 10 and so far this has worked.  We have had a few school issues where they have learnt that I'm going to talk to every one concerned and I will know if they are lieing or even omitting parts of their involvement.

Answer 7

Tell him to get off his bed and stop laying around....

Answer 8

I am scratching  my head here! Wtf is a layer, do you mean a slayer? Help me here please!

Answer 9

What's a layer? My, we have some confusing questions here tonight...

Answer 10

Do you mean LIAR? Punish him. He needs to learn that he cannot get away with lying. Tell him if he lies to his friends or to you no one will trust him.

Answer 11

if you mean he lies,then I think he needs to be punished. He is only doing what you allow him to do.

Answer 12

Learn to spell...

He's doing great if he's already a lawyer.

Answer 13

He's a 'layer'?

Answer 14

a what?

Answer 15

Do you mean "player"? Or liar? Um, tell him to stop lying if he is a liar and if he doesn't listen then don't believe anything he says until he tells you he'll stop lying forever.

Answer 16

What is a ''layer'' ?