I have 2 things going on in my life should i tell them to my dad and if yes how?

Question

1. I wanna move in with my mom [i already know i should tell him]

reason: because i cant take where i am right now and i need a new life change andi have no clue how to tell him!!!!!

2. I'm bi

reason: well guess we could say "i kissed a girl and i liked it" but im only 15 should i tell my dad or keep it on the low or does he have a right to know!?!?

Answer 1

I would talk to your mom about how you feel, and about the reasons why you want to move in with her.  Talk about what it would be like, the rules, expectations and all that.

I wouldn't talk to your folks about your sexuality at that young of an age.  You are really just discovering it all, and that could cause more havoc than you need right now.  

Also, it sounds as if your living situation is much more important in present day terms than your budding sexuality.

Answer 2

well, i think you should tell your dad about the moving thing. does your mom live in temecula somewhear by vail ranch middle school? cuz if she does move in with her. just say, "Dad, i want to move in with mom. i just miss her so much and i need some time with her too to talk about girl stuff like guys and bras!" trust me that WILL work!  as for the whole bi thing,.... i guess that you should wait to tell your dad. actually, i think that you should tell him when your older. next time i ever talk to you i will help you out with deciding how.

Answer 3

I agree with Mel C....I think that you need to be focused on telling your dad that you want to live with your Mom.   Good Luck

Answer 4

I think you should talk to your mom about moving in, and then talk to him about it. Be honest -- say you need a change and that you love him, but you'd like to live with your mother for a while. That's a little more important than revealing your sexuality to him right now.  

Answer 5

about the first thing is that u should ignore it as it may lead to some intense moments in  between ur parents.

and the second thing keep it with u till i think ur 18.