I have Disney problems......any advice?

Question

Here is the problem..it may be long but bare with me please. My family and I have planned a trip to FL in September. There are 4 of us and we have the Dining plan at one of the resorts. However, one of 4 of us has decided not to go and my boyfriend was going to go in her place. My parents don't want all of us staying in the same room being my boyfriend and I are not married. I understand that however, they are out of rooms and even if we could get another room, he wouldn't be able to be on the free dining package we have. If he stays with us or if we get a cabin at a different resort (and pay an extra $915 more) we can all be on the free dining. However, we don't want to pay that much extra after we have already payed for everything else....HELP I need advice!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Some resorts have connecting rooms.  If that can be accommodated where you are staying, perhaps leaving the door open between the two will be sufficient reassurance for your parents?

Answer 2

Well best thing to do is find alternate accommodations for . your boyfriend.

If your parents do not want to share a room with a non family while on vacation then honor their wishes.

Get a refund on the one.

I doubt 2 of you would be eating $915 worth of food.

Hopefully he is old enough to rent a room on his own.

Remember he was never part of the plan.

They were ok with 2 girls but not boy/girl.

You guys can always go on your own down the road.

Make your parents happy and enjoy vacation as plans are now.

Answer 3

get a refund for the ticket.

Answer 4

Bring an air mattress, have him sleep on the floor, or get a cot.  Alternatively, he could stay at a cheap hotel on 192 (Rooms can be had for $30/night) and meet up with you in the mornings at the resort.

Answer 5

Get a room with two double beds and make the room adjoining and tell your parents that you will keep the adjoining door open at all times so they know you won't do anything.  

Answer 6

For a small fee you can try requesting a cot or extra bed for your room and have your boyfriend sleep on that on the opposite side of the room from you.  It should get the parents off your back a little bit.  Depends on what hotel you're staying at though.  Some might already have an extra sleeping place.

Answer 7

this is my suggestion...

I am assuming the problem your parents are having is that they do not want you to sleeping in the same bed together, or same room alone.  Ask them if you could find an alternative to sharing a bed or room if he can go.  Then ask around and see if any of your friends, relatives etc have an air mattress.  Borrow that from them and have your boyfriend sleep on that.  If you are all in the same room that should satisfy your parents... your mom can always sleep in your bed to guarantee no bed hopping will occur in the middle of the night, and your dad alone and boyfriend on the air mattress.  Just make sure you deflate the mattress or put a "No Mousekeeping" sign on the door, you don't want to be charged like there are extra people staying there.  I hope that helps.

We went to WDW in '03 right before my hubby and I got married (we were engaged) with my mom and sister.  We stay in Ft. Wilderness because we own a motorhome, so we camp.  My mom would not let us sleep in the same bed, even though we were 22, engaged, and it isn't like anything would have went on considering the proximity to her.  :)  

You aren't alone, but where there is a will there is a way.  Hope that works, if you need more help feel free to e-mail

Answer 8

well if your parents are there with you guys then i don't see a problem.

they can monitor everything you do.

its not like you're gonna have s*x there or even make out cuz you would want to be sucking face infront of your parents.

i could maybe possibly understand them not wanting you to sleep in the same bed which i don't realy see a huge problem with theat either cuz like i said before its not like you're gonna have s*x. but at the same time i could understand not sleeping in the same bed.

so why can't your dad and boyfriend sleep in one bed and you and your mom in the other.

really i'd explain to your parents that its really not that big of a deal. i mean come on if you and your boyfriend were out driving and the car broke down and no one could come help you then you'd be close to each other plus have opportunity for s*x since no one was around.

and if its about the whole you or your b/f walking around half naked to get dressed just get your clothes and toiletries together and get raady in the bath room.

like i said not a big deal if you ask me.  

Answer 9

have your boyfriend and dad stay together, and you can stay with mom-dukes

Answer 10

borrow a air mattress or get a extra stow away bed which Disney does have.

Answer 11

Just explain this to your parents. If they still wont let him come then I guess you can try to guitl trip them and be like "okay, I guess we'll just not use that extra ticket and meal plan and I'll miss my boyfriend." They're being really unreasonable since it's not costing them any more money and they'll be in the room with you guys. Tell them you wont share a bed and he can sleep on the pull out couch. That might work.