I have NO self esteem. You've all heard this Q before but pls help me out...?

Question

I believe I have an absent conscience. I'm a slow learner, so I'm not good at positive thinking, praising myself, or thinking for myself. Brainy ppl, popular ppl, athletes, over-achievers--all those ppl TICK ME OFF. I'm asian, and my whole school is filled with competitive asians--I can't find a single friend who is not arrogant. I can't find a gI'm a senior in HS now--getting through hard times--and I want to turn things around for myself. Should I start cussing when someone insults me? I haven't cussed or say hate or sh*t in over 7 years and I'm not good at coming up with quick replys and I hurt myself tremendously holding pains and insults to myself.

Answer 1

Why do other people tick you off?Look at it this way:What they might be good at you might not be good at and what you're good at,they might not be good at.You should be proud of your heritage and just because all of the other asians at your school are competitive does not mean that you have to be.The best that you can do is try your best.You don't have to be like all of the other kids.Being you is what makes you,you.This is a very trying point in your life.Being a slow learner is nothing to be ashamed about.Or maybe you just think that you are a slow learner.You are a very bright child no matter what the circumstance.Don't think of yourself less than a intelligent equal and don't let other people tell you that you are not smart.You're very smart.You have a reason for being proud of yourself,you should be proud of yourself for trying.It doesn't matter who finishes first as long as you all finish,right?I think that you are being way too hard on yourself.I don't suggest that you cuss at the people that wrong you.They are either jealous or just want to pick on you.Kids are going to pick on everyone even their best friends.That's why it's important not to listen to what they have bad to say about you.Just ignore them and go on.Just remember this:We're all different,and no one is the same,no one but Jesus is perfect.We all have our flaws.We all have our talents.I'm probably good at things that they aren't.I'm a talented and smart individual and though they might not think of me that way,in the end,it doesn't matter what they think.Pray to GOD about this.GOD can solve anything in your life.I truly hope that I helped you!GOD BLESS you!

Answer 2

No wonder youre going crazy! Let yourself just be. If you want to swear then swear (Cuss) . Why are you so uptight??? Maybe people sense your frustrations and stay away. Try being yourself and just open up to people. If they dont like you then thats tough **** for them. Stay true to yourself and you will be fine. Good luck!