I have a 12 year old cousin in LA. And he worries allot about how he looks.

Question

you know pecs, abs, 6 pack stuff like that. He looks up to me and i don't know what to do with him. Should he be worring about this stuff at 12 years old or should he have this stuff at 12 years old??

Answer 1

he shouldnt worry about that till 15-17...

Answer 2

At twelve thats kind of a normal reaction.

It just so happens that at  the age of twelve guys become aware of the opposite s*x, and with media that tells us its all about how you look, its not unusual for someone at that age to be self conscious of his/her body.

My sister is twelve, and she's also very self-conscious. After watching America's Next Top Model, she didn't eat for a week, until we forced her to.

You just need to let him know that he looks amazing. And it really boosts confidence if you get him clothes that make him look good. Your giving him tips on how to boost his confidence.

Leelah  

Answer 3

Yes its normal. When I was twelve everyone was telling me about how girls are showing intrest in guys and how we got to be ready so I began working out, exercising, wearing deoderant, taking showers more often.  

Answer 4

Nothin wrong at all with a 12yo kid wantin to look good.

Encourage him to exercise and build up his body.  At his age though he should be careful not to lift excessive weights as this could stunt his growth.  

Stress that diet is just as important for a ripped body as workin out.

I know many young kids who work out and have some pretty awesome bodies for their ages.

Answer 5

Tell him not to worry about these things. His muscles and stuff are still growing and there's nothing he can do about them right now. He needs to wait till he's 16 or so.