I have a 4yr. old and I'm 7 mo. pregnant. Would it be to late for me join the military after the baby is born?

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I have a 4yr. old and I'm 7 mo. pregnant. Would it be to late for me join the military after the baby is born?

Answer 1

Disregard the Heather D's response. If you want to serve your country, then by all means do it. If you think it would be the best way for you to sustain a steady job and medical coverage for your kids, do it. I have a very good girlfriend who has 3 beautiful boys, and is a single mom. She fortunately has a very supportive family, and her ex-husband isn't too bad either, because he agreed to take care of the boys on her deployment. Yes, the military is not too great on being family friendly when you're talking about single parents, but there are ways to work around that.

IF, and only if, something were to happen to you, you're children will grow up knowing that their mom died for the pride she had in her country, and that she believed in something great. Don't be discouraged if people don't understand that. My dad is a Vietnam Veteran and my husband is currently active in the Army. I know what it's like to be alone through deployments, and kids will be kids. They will understand that mom had to do what she had to do to provide for her kids.

And to answer your question...no, it's not too late. As long as you're not 35, you're good to go. Start working off that pregnancy weight about 6 weeks postpartum. ;-)

I hope I was of some help to you.

My question to the gentleman below me would be what about MEN who leave their children to go to war?? Does that make them bad fathers too, or is that ok because men are expected to protect and serve?? It's the same concept, just a different gender role. Not everyone has choices or a ton of jobs lined up for them. The military offers stability for families. Especially for families with children. Granted, there are a lot of screwed up homes with kids who don't really know their moms or dads because they chose the military route, but the problem with those families was a lack of communication and understanding. The DIFFERENCE is that this mom is choosing this path FOR her family. Not in spite of it.

Answer 2

probably not but if your not married you will have to give full custody to the person watching your child. Also. basic is tough. Wait until your body is strong before going.

Answer 3

women leaving little babies , going to war are not good mothers. Some women that cant have a baby would die for the opportunity to have one and see him/her to grow every day. Wake up. Pride and country are nothing like family.

Answer 4

Why on earth would you want to leave your babies? I mean, I understand defending our country and freedoms, BUT if you wanted a military career, you should have postponed babies.  What if something happens to you?