I have a 6 moth old daughter with a guy i been with for 5 yrs but he does'nt seem to wanna grow up. ?

Question

should i leave him? He feels because I make more money than he does he can slack on helping me with my daughter. also he likes for me to take him to work but doesnt want to give me no gas money or help me with tickets and getting my car fixed. Am I wrong for not wanting to take him to work and for not letting him use my car? Also I have not been having s*x with him because I feel he cant have his cake and eat it too. am i wrong?

Answer 1

Sounds like the relationship is not going to work out.

The issues you brought up are the big ones:

Money, Affection, and Children.

Have you had a serious conversation with him?

I don't mean a blowup, a fight, an attack, but a serious sit down and talk conversation?

If you have and he's not willing to do anything differently or take his responsibilities seriously then I can't see a future for your relationship.

Answer 2

your not wrong at all! The sad thing about your situation is that the baby is 6 months! if he hasn't changed in 6 months, there probably isn't a change coming. You would be crazy to take care of the baby alone, then cater to him too, let him be a man! You can do bad by yourself! If you don't stop this foolishness he will only continue to take advantage of you!  And remember theres always friends of the court! If he doesn't want to help you on his own, they'll make him help you! Its sad but sometimes people have to learn things the hard way!

Answer 3

no you're not. Get a new man and file for child support  

Answer 4

Leave him.

He's got to shape up, and he's not going to the way things are going. He probably feels like he's getting away with it, so why change. You're obviously being the better person and acting way more than generous with him.  He needs to act like an adult and be more responsible.

Make sure you let him know how you need him to be involved in your life. Maybe he'll see he has to really step up to the plate for you and your daughter.