I have a 7yr old son with aspergers?

Question

I find it difficult 2 find things he enjoys doing apart from computer games. He is also a fussy eater and has problems with concentration. my partner doesn't understand that my son has a problem my partner just says his mis behaving does any1 have any advice or any organisations i can get in touch with 2 make my sons home life bettter?

Answer 1

First your partner needs to be educated about Aspergers and autism.  There are lots of websites that can be googled that would help provide information.  

You can also go to:  http://www.autismspeaks.org  (Under Community > Resources you can find resources for your state)

Answer 2

check with you local community mental health services center and they can guide you.

Answer 3

Here is a link to a really spectacular website that may be of help to you.  I have helped adult Asperger's people find jobs in my community and know that many of them are high functioning.  The website link below believes there's more you can do, too, so good luck!

http://www.talkaboutcuringautism.org/ind...

BTW...how about art supplies?  I've observed a higher incidence of artistic talent in the people with Asperger's with whom I have worked.

Answer 4

check out http://www.wrongplanet.net    its a forum mainly for those with aspergers but there are some parents on there as well

Answer 5

My stepson is autistic and he is the SAME WAY. He only eats certain foods and LOVES the computer.  I notice that children with aspergers and autism love things that spin and things that have a lot of lights and sounds (not too loud though).  Find something that your partner and your son can enjoy together.  Have her/him take your son to a carnival (all of the lights and spinning rides will grab his attention) or a theme park.  Your home life should revolve around your son's wellness, not your partners.  Educate your partner and show her/him that you two could be WAY WORSE off, as there are children with severe autism.  things will get better, there need to be a balance with all members of the family.  Good luck and stay strong! :)

Answer 6

Has he been "officially" diagnosed?  You should meet with your son's doctor, bring your partner and have the doctor discuss in detail what Asperger's Syndrome is and how it affects your son specifically.