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I have a 9 yr old boy, that I can't keep away from the girls?

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Okay so my nine year old, will be 10 next week. but he is handsome and always attracts girls.I am a firm believer that he cannot have a girlfriend until he is older. There is this girl that is 10, I can't keep them apart.My son and this girl were caught kissing on the bus a couple of months ago. I told him he was not old enough to be doing that and he was not allowed to hang out with her. She came up to him at school and asked him to go with her behind the building, when she would not leave I told her politely that my son was not allowed to hang out with her and explained why. Since then she shows up at my home and tries to get my son to sneak out. She writes him adult letters. And will not stop coming by my house. She waits for him outside of his classroom. I have to talked to the teachers, principal,and bus drivers, still can't keep them apart. The 2 of them have even formed a plan to sneak out and meet at 2:00a.m. does any one have ideas to keep my son away from this girl?

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  1. My God...Do not listen to those people who tell you to let it go and why can't he have a girlfriend.  My son is 10 and there is NO way I'd allow him going behind buildings with some little tart like that.  Honestly, is there something not right in this little girl's family?  Have you thought about that?  I just cannot see sexuality like that at that age.  And being that the parents seem to not do anything about it or even care, sends a red flag too.  Sneaking out at 2:00 a.m.?  I wish you told me you knew a police officer who could "pretend bust them" and make a huge stink of it to scare the c**p out of them.  But you need to keep trying.  This isn't normal or right in my mind.

    Edit:  There is a huge difference between a 10 year old boy and a 15 year old boy.  10 year old boys do not need to look like a man and score.  That's pathetic.


  2. sounds like there both younge and just want to have fun. if you let him talk to her but no go anywhere then he won't need to sneak out.

  3. Let it go! The more you tell them they CAN"T the more that they want to!   Tell him to go for it and he'll he up and so will she.

  4. ok herez sum advice from a 12 year old.

    ok i personally think dat hez 2 yung 2 be doing dat.

    but still i advice u 2 stop telling teacherz, principles and the bus driver about those thingz. i noe ur trying 2 protect ur child, but if u want 2 stop this then u should FIRST talk 2 him about da situation. DONT say c**p about da girl or about ur son, be gentle and say dat u understand dat the both like eachother...BUT it doesn't mean dat he can jus disobey ur rulez...like sneaking out of da house at 2:00 am. if da conversation dont work out afterwardz i suggest u 2 ground him. no tv, no computer, no games and if he tlakz 2 da gurl on da phone, take da phone away and tell him hez not allowed 2 talk 2 anybody, hiz girlfriend nor hiz friends. but 2 tell u da truth, since ur son attractz gurlz alot, u should know dat wen hez like more older like 13..he would be having ALOT of gurlz! i think u should allow him 2 have a gf wen hez 13 or 14. becuz itz natural 4 kidz 2 fall in luv. but if thingz get out of control wen hez with gurlz, like s*x at a yung age...ground him and TRY 2 make him see dat ur the mother....and UR IN CHARGE! i hope my advice workz...gud luck =)

  5. uhh, tell her parents!!!!

  6. tell the little scorpian womans mom.

  7. Tell him firmly no, that is not okay, if you do that again you are going to an all boys school.

    Yeah! That's how it works! And if he ask why...say "cuz I am the mom that's why!"

  8. I have the same problem with my 15 year old,he's very well liked by the girls at school.

    You have to be stern with him,though it's not his fault the girls find him attractive.Set rules and limits for him.

    For him,all phone calls stop at 7:00 pm

    My son has always gotten compliments on his looks and he just smiles and says

    " thanks "

    Unfortunately he got his good looks from his mom =(

    I don't have to tell you but some girls can be persistent.If they continue to bother you or harass you at home call the police.

  9. why dont u want him to have a girlfriend???

  10. I'm no parent, but I definitely suggest contacting this girl's mother. Chances are, she has no idea her little daughter is doing this, and wouldn't be happy if she did. If you two hold the same opinion that your children shouldn't be seeing each other (and I agree, at 9 years old it's not appropriate. What ever happened to cooties?), perhaps you can both collaborate and try talking to your children seriously about it. Set restrictions, pick him up from school if you have to. I hate to say it, but I'd just tighten up the leash a little and take away some privileges until he can start acting responsibly. Hope this helps!

  11. whoa, they are way too young to be acting like that.  most kids don't become such lying little pervs till around 13...yep you gotta talk to the mom

  12. I think u should keep ur son with u at night and close all the doors and windows and lock them. U can also put theif alarms near the door.

    Hope i helped

  13. What was in the "adult letters"? Other than that I just want to say just let it go.

  14. What did her parents say when you talked to them about the problem?

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