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I have a Crazy sister

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I have a situation that is unbearable. I believe my sister has borderline personality disorder. (She has never been diagnosed, but I believe she has it) We are once again under the same roof. She, because of a divorce, and I because I am going back to school full time and cannot afford an apartment while in school. She is 34 years old with no bank account, o credit and an access of 60 thousand dollars in debt. She is an absolute nightmare to live with. She is extremely abusive and uses every opportunity to critizice me or other family members. She is completely self centered and has always taken my belongings with out asking sometimes never to return them. Every conversation also has to be about her or she will explode. On a daily basis I have to avoid at least four verbal attacks of hers. She has ruined my childhood and my brothers also. All I remember are the physical and emotional abuse she inflicted every day. My brother avoids her at all costs. It’s also unbearable to watch her berate my elderly mother. My sister is extremely cruel and abusive to my mother. Even though my mother is constantly giving her money and helping her out. How do I continue to live like this. She uses drugs to medicate herself, has a drinking problem and has been arrested for assault before. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

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  1. I think the best thing to do in this situation would have to be avoiding your sister just like your brother...you dont want her to attack you and since all she talks about is her self than dont listen to her conversation, she should figure out on her own that she is not wanted in that house...if all she cares about is drugs and alcohol than she is nobody...sit down and have a talk with your mom on not helping her with money problems if all she buys are stuff to make her a happy person such as drugs and alcohol...everyone should avoid her!!!!!!!!!


  2. Sorry to hear about that. You sister seems like she have some serious problems. You her butt out your house. She will get her act together.

  3. maybe you should talk to your mom and tell her she's being taken advantage of, also let her know of the harm she has called the rest of your family, kicking her out might be the best for all of you.. you need to get your sis some help though too, if she'll take it

  4. GET UR BAGS AND GET THE H*** OUT B/C SHE NEEDS HELP AND DOESNT LIKE SHE'S GOING TO GET IT SOON SOOO MAYBE YOU SHOULD TRY TO MOVE WITH YOUR MOM OR BROTHERS OR SOMETHING  BECAUSE SOMETIMES PEOPLE DONT  REALIZE WHAT THEY GOT UNTIL IT'S GONE SO MAYBE THAT'S WHAT IT WILL TAKE ( YOU MOVING AWAY )AND YOUR MOM TO STOP HELPING HER FOR HER TO REALIZE WHAT SHE HAD AND GET HELP AND GET HER LIFE  TOGETHER

  5. the best advice i can give you is to get out of the house as soon as you can. i think giving your sister the cold shoulder for quite sometime will tell her that she has done something wrong. everyone in the family has to participate in this though. in order for her to realize she has a problem, she needs to figure it out on her own and if she has enough time to do this while everyone is gone it will help. all you can really do is tell her how you feel and hope for the best.  

  6. IT might be because of people u dont no.  
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