I have a big fight with my elder brother, what should i do?

Question

I had a big argument with my brother two days ago. Argument was on minor topic and i have emotionally hurt him very badly. He has left home, please anybody suggest what should i do further. I have apologized many times but of no use.

Answer 1

Give him time to think things out.Sometimes when we apologize to someone they may not except it at that time because of what was said it might have hard him deeper then you know. It will work out in time be patience.

Answer 2

leave ur ego just go ahead & tell him his importance in ur life. after all he is ur elder brother u must apologise him in a sincere way & by heart.

Answer 3

Ask him sorry,

In future Please don't have emotion.  If you have more angry Just try to smile. Smiling is the best way of decreasing the  angry.

Whenever you should angry and emotion, make your face as smile.

Now go to your brother in smiling face and ask him sorry (Not in only one time) He is your brother so ask so many times

Answer 4

definitely give him time,

since he is your brother he will eventually come around.

maybe try and look at it from his point of view, that has helped me before with my sister. she had the beginning signs of an eating disorder so i stepped back and saw what was going on from her eyes and was able to turn her thoughts around and to love herself. maybe try the same thing about what ever happened between you two.  

Answer 5

u need to give some love and show him sum how dat u was very wrong.go too wheres he at.will ya mum go wid ya???write him aletter and post it.u may have to grovel but hey its ya bro and i no u love him.tell him dat we all argue as families.every1 does.let him no  u stepped over the mark being rude to him like u was.plan a family meal and let him no its important that he comes cus u got something to say in front of  the whole family cus  u feel.bad,bad,bad.get something that has brother on it.a trophy wud be a great idea.caption best brother plse forgive me.i hope u sort dis out hun.we are all hasty at times and say things we dont mean.keep trying tho cus dats ya bro and he will always be.good luck.i wish he comes bak for u.pinksssssssssssss

Answer 6

Give him some time, he'll come around eventually.

Answer 7

Time will heel. Trust me. I hated my brother when we were growing up. I was the little brother. We look up to each other now. Just take it as face value and life experience.

Answer 8

Give him time.