I have a big problem, please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

i have this feeling inside, i don't know what. i have plenty of friends but, i always feel like i am being judged. i have a side of myself that i don't show to anyone, because i fear that they will laugh at me. i don't know what this feeling is, it is tearing me up inside and i am to the point that i am about to go insane.

what am i suppose to so? if i tell people about what i really enjoy doing then i will probably get made fun of and my friends wont like me any more.

and please none of this, "well there not your friend if they wont accept you for who you are." that just pisses me off. please help?

Answer 1

Hi,

You have the name and initial of my nephew Ian. If its you then stop worrying...your mother was always too hard on you and a bit jeery of you since a baby. That's all is wrong with you.

If you're not my nephew then my advice is to tell one friend you trust in a joking way what you really enjoy and see their reaction. Then comeback and tell us all what it is and see our advice to you. If its something daft, like wanting to be the next pop idol we'll tell you its daft.

Cheer up

Answer 2

well i cant give u advice if i dont know "what is it that you really enjoy doing"

Answer 3

my advice to you is be who you are if those friends dont accept you then dont worry somebody will friends are those who stick with you no matter if your fat skinny insane sick those are friends why would someone judge you for whom you really are show your true colors dont be scared and keep your head up everyone in this world is different dont worry

Answer 4

i get the feeling you know what the answers are going to be.  you sound as though you are looking for someone to give you a profound answer explaining everything but the truth is there are thousands (probably millions) of people in exactly the same boat.  it seems in society we mask who we really are to either seek acceptance from our peers/friends/family and we only show the side of ourselves that we know they want to see.

the thing to remember (although you dont want to hear it) - you true friends and of course your family will love you no matter how strange your 'other side' is.  but one thing is true - the feeling you have inside will not go away until you are honest with yourself and let you be you