I have a big problem(people and my mom)?

Question

My mom won´t let me quit my sport?

okay so i have a hugh problem i´m a diver(u know springboard...and diving from 5 meter/7 meter and so on....)

and my mother is my trainer and i really want to quit because everyone in the club and people in my country hate me....they backtalk me all the time and i have really lost my confidence

they(a "group" says things about me to others to make them not like me....this has been going on in like 4 years...and i have won a place in our country championship.

But know i hate the sport and i have got a block (i am afriad to do some dives)

and my mom don´t want me to quit...so she force me to continue

and i have been crying over it so mutch and everytime i mention quiting she get so mad....know we have summerbreak and break from the sport.....and we´re beginning next week...and i really don´t know what to do...

Answer 1

I strongly believe that it's wrong of your mom to force you to do an activity that you don't want to do. I recommend sitting down with your mom, and explain how you feel. If you just say, "I don't want to be a diver! Please don't make me!"... well, that won't work. She needs to know the real reasons behind it.

Answer 2

this happened to me in soccer. and the answer is really simple. You need a break from diving. you dont really hate diving probably, you just hate the fact that you lost ur confidence. i lost my confidence in soccer. i couldnt shoot, dribble, pass, or do any of my tricks. i started hating it. i dreaded going to games and practices. first of all, ignore the people that talked bad about you. what you have to do is next time u see them, say really nice things to them. talk to them like they've been ur friend for years. make em get on ur side. in soccer, i sprained my knee and i was out for 4 months. i realized how much i missed playing soccer, and when my knee healed, i was pumped up to go out and play again. and i played great. i think God made me sprain my knee so i could get that break. what you have to do is get through this. be strong and tell ur mom how u really feel. just spill it out. tell her u lost all ur confidence and u need her help. God will lead u in the right path when it comes to sports. u need ur moms support. so tell her everything, be strong, and leave it up to God to help you.  

Answer 3

You must have a talk with your MOM and TAKE THE EMOTION out of it. Be mature and support your point of view with facts and tell her you love her but you've made the decision not to continue. Ask her if she really wants to force you to do something you're no longer interested in. Be mature, level headed, cool and calm. You have to "sell" her on your idea. You can do it. Good luck!

Answer 4

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you should probably tell your mum

that your losing all your friends because of the sport

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you should tell her that you feel that shes basically bullying you in2 doing

the sport when you really don't want to.

you should be able to make your own decisions  

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if that does'nt work out 4 U then

you should probaly get profesional help

hope this helps

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Answer 5

Explain to your mom how you feel. Make her understand what you really want to do. if your mom doesn't understand, just don't do it. Get professional help maybe.

Tnks KK