I have a bisexual son and a g*y-hating husband?

Question

My husband was almost arrested once for beating up a g*y couple with his friends when he was a teenager, and my son recently confided in my he was bisexual.

WHAT DO I DO!???

Answer 1

get your husband into a g*y counseling program, and inform ur son that you're trying to get his dad to be more accepting of homosexuality.

Answer 2

don't let your husband find out, and get him some angry management and a therapist right away. If he tries to hurt you child you need to protect him, your husband doesn't matter your son does.

Answer 3

video tape it and make a show on MTV

Answer 4

Don't tell your husband.

Help out your son, while he's with his boyfriend, occupy your husband.

The boy is only bisexual, he may (and, i'm putting strong emphasis on the word "may" because it's most likely not gonna happen) end up with a girl.

So, if i were you, i'd keep it a secret between you, and your son and his boyfriend.

On second thought, how old is your son?

(Age changes EVERYTHING.)

Answer 5

Don't tell your husband about your son. Leave that up to your son to do himself. I'd advise him to do it when he's out on his own, if he isn't already.

good luck

:)

Answer 6

you need to educate your husband, he needs to understand that there is nothing wrong with g**s or bi's...

Answer 7

tell ur hubby to get the h**l over it.  

Answer 8

Does he really need to know?

And if he finds out, be FIRM. You're not going to run away with your tail between your legs, are you? NO! He is your SON. Defend him.

Answer 9

well now tht is just...interesting.

Answer 10

um, do your best to try not to let your husband find out your son is bi...that's the best thing I can think of...

Answer 11

Well..I can't tell you what to do, but If I was in that situation I would try to find out where my husband stands now with that. If he would take his own prejudices over his own son, I personally couldn't even be with him. I suppose you could try keeping it from him, but that could go wrong later too.  

Answer 12

Your husband needs to have more experience around g**s, homophobes usually haven't been around them enough.

You need to be careful about this though, don't want anyone hurt.

Don't bring him to a g*y couple kissing, just show him that g*y people are normal and can be the sweetest people ever.

Best of luck hon. <33 My thoughts are with you.

Answer 13

Get the entire family together then fill them in, including your son and husband then press record :)

Answer 14

You don't need to tell your husband. You don't need to tell the truth until he is actually showing his sexuality upfront like when he is already dating a guy.  

Answer 15

You need to talk to your husband and inform him, and then get very submissive and tell him the importance of him accepting his son. Manipulate his emotions, don't be submissive to his opinion. Then continue to inform him that your son is very normal, healthy, and is looking for supportive parents. My suggestion, also, is for you to do it while he's at school. That way, if he explodes, your son is safe and your husband has time to cool off, and think about how to handle the situation.

Best of luck <3