I have a black eye, from rough s*x, but my parents are worried? ?

Question

I have recently become sexually active, with my boyfriend who my mother doesn’t approve of. I don’t want her to know that I started having s*x. The thing is though, I like it kind of rough, and last time (by accident) he gave me a blue eye. But I wanted it like that. I’m trying to hide it the best I can, but some people are noticing and thinking that I have been abused, and are wanting to beat up my boyfriend, when he is innocent. I don’t know what to do anymore, I wanted the black eye. What can I do?

Answer 1

Wear an eye patch. Then your parents wont see.

Its ok if hey beat up your boy friend, giving a girl a black eye is a big no no no matter what. s*x is for pleasure after all.

Answer 2

lmao... best thing i heard all day.

Answer 3

ermmmm, just say you fell down the stairs.....lol!

Answer 4

wanting a black eye is weird, but just make up something to your mum like you hit yourself in the eye with your knee or your hairbrush hit your eyethe other option is to tell her the truth

Answer 5

you wanted the black eye?

what the p**s!

Answer 6

say err ughmm idk

Answer 7

Initially what do you mean by the rubbish black and blue eyes? Next, if your guy was really innocent he wouldn't have s*x with you and the very last fault of yours is that you are betraying your parents and shame on you!

Answer 8

Say you go it playing the Wii..  

Answer 9

o.o Get help

But just say you got it by running into a door. If people don't believe you just say you punched yourself by accident in a swinging motion towards your face.

Answer 10

Weird.  

Answer 11

okay...please explain? how can you get a black eye from rough s*x? :| what was he trying to do? or what was you telling him to do? fair enough, from hardcore s*x, lads love scratches down the back and girls like the finger print marks left but a black eye? i really don't understand.

it's obvious that no normal people having rough s*x would get a black eye so it's obvious people will think it's abuse; you're just going to have to explain what went on, or you will cause trouble for both you and your partner.

heres a tip...don't have s*x that can cause you stupid injuries like this one you've caused; really can't see how it's possible and why you wanted a black eye? they're not very attractive.

Answer 12

Your mom knows best really but if you continue on with the rough s*x stuff it s gonna get more trying and more exhausting people have died from "rough" s*x asphyiation see with you starting this with his u have opened up to a new world and it will get more and more harder to escape it once you start a man into something he has to try this he wants to do that please be careful is all i cn say

Answer 13

That's not s*x, it's violence. You are being abused. Wake up and get away from that guy before he really does you serious harm.  

Answer 14

Ignore these people, just find alternatives that don't leave obvious marks. Have him hit you with an open hand, buy whips etc.

  

Answer 15

You can't get much more sexually active than getting smacked in the face.

Answer 16

Okay, first of all you are not wierd, you are not a freak! You should look into SM, you are problably slighly masichistic and submissive. It's nothing to worry about. Eventually you will have to either have your boyfriend make marks where they are not visible with clothes on, or confess to the people you love what is going on. Chances are, they wont take it well as you can see most people dont approve or understand this lifestyle. SO the best bet is, dont have him make marks on your face. Also, be very careful about what youre doing. Black eyes and blows to the face can be dangerous. Its much safer to play in other areas of the body. Good luck, feel free to contact me if you have any more questions, or just read the book SM 101, Jay Wiseman

And dont be afraid or wierded out by your feelings, at least one in ten people have kinky feelings or fantasies!

Answer 17

You wanted the black eye? I think you mean you wanted the rough s*x. Just tell people it was an accident and change the subject unless you feel comfortable telling them it happened during s*x. You don't have to tell anyone you like it rough.

Answer 18

I have never heard that someone says that he/she wanted the black eye. Especially the black eye was the result of the rough s*x, my goodness, what part of your body are you using for s*x? Yea, you're right, it is not my business, but I hope you're doing it right! I feel like there is something not right though. I hated black eye, because I was beat up throughout all my chidlhood and had black eye  almost everyother week. School had never questioned my black eye for those days in that part of the world. Tell the truth.  

Answer 19

you can have rough s*x without getting clocked by yur boyfriend ya know...

ha no to be mean im just saying...try some other rough things like little spanks and little hair pulls i guess but full on punching yur eyeball is kinda violent

Answer 20

wtf freak

Answer 21

Maybe, dont let it happen to your face, just to your body?

This way, people won't have to see and your secret is safe.

Answer 22

FIrst, for the sake of your boyfriend, write him a witnessed letter explaining how you like it.  He may need it if one of your other friends decides to take matters into their own hands.  next, you need an excuse.  take up some kind of sport.  tennis is a great one for hiding black eyes.  I used to use that excuse when i got in a fight.  lastly, be careful.  establesh a safe word (something you say that means stop) and always lay down rules before s*x.  rough s*x is fine. a lot of people have a phase, some like it that way best.  know your limits and don't let anyone push you past them.

Answer 23

Stop getting your boyfriend to hit your face,a good slap on the ar$e is fine but the face no.

Answer 24

lol! x

Answer 25

why would you want a black eye?  you okay?