I have a boyfriend but i cant seem to have an o****m?

Question

i don't really understand why i cant have an o****m with him it feels good but i just cant get off. I would like to know maybe what i could do or if something might be wrong. Any help would be very appreciated.

Answer 1

I am the same way too. Although some women can reach o****m during intercourse, many women find it easier and actually prefer to achieve o****m through oral or manual stimulation of the clitoris.

Female anatomy makes it more difficult to be stimulated to o****m by intercourse than does the male anatomy.  Make sure you're good and turned on before you even think about having an o****m. Try thinking of a fantasy, read some erotica or watch an erotic video to get you in the mood.



Experiment with different positions and techniques. Oral s*x may work great for one woman, but others find penetration a sure way to o****m.

m********e. Can you bring yourself to o****m? If so, teach those techniques to your partner. Or better yet, m********e with your partner as a witness. I had to do this, because the only way I could have an o****m was to do it myself. I had to teach and tell him what I like, He was very understanding. If you have good communication with your partner, then this should not be a problem.



Try a vibrator. Many women find that the best way for them to consistently reach o****m is through the intense stimulation of a vibrator. Don't be afraid to bring toys into the bedroom if they increase your sexual pleasure.

Good luck! I hope this helps... Don't feel bad, it happens to more women than you can imagine (smile). You are not alone in this....

Answer 2

I am a guy, and I am not afraid to admit that I have had this problem with my gf except it was me, not her. I usually got off, but for some reason I had trouble for a while. I am not completely sure what the problem actually was, but from my research I found that poor diet, stress, and other emotional and physiological issues play a key role in s*x. The best advice I can give you is to look back at your life recently and just try to see if something has been happening that may have stressed you out, or for some reason turned you off even. You could also try being more intimate and prolonging foreplay...build it up until you just want to tear his clothes off and jump on him. Don't let it bother you too much because worrying will only make it worse. Best of luck!

Answer 3

Maybe waiting till marrage would help.

Answer 4

Your exactly like me havent had an o****m with my bf, i dont know why and its gettin him down :(

Answer 5

These two articles help woman o****m with their partners:

How to Locate the G Spot During s*x- From Behind

http://www.ehow.com/how_4448654_locate-g...

How to Locate the G Spot During s*x- Missionary Position

http://www.ehow.com/how_4451153_locate-g...

Hope they answer your questions!

Answer 6

honestly, it doesn't really get good until after the wedding, and then with someone who you haven't done it with before. I had many partners before I met my husband, and he was a virgin at the alter.  He is the BEST I've ever had!  

Answer 7

Sometimes it just takes some time before you can with somebody.  It has nothing to do with how good it feels or anything like that, but many people have to feel comfortable enough with the other person.  Even though you may feel completely comfortable with this person, you might subconsciously not be.

Answer 8

This is a common problem for many women. Remember that it's all about the clitoris. Ask him to play with your clitoris while he's thrusting, or you could do it yourself.