I have a crazy sister in law?

Question

shes been surrounded by drama for years,its always something with her, i truly think shes crazy. the last time she was talking cap about her hubby hating his mom(my mother in law) well when it came out she blamed me for saying it. this causes issues between my hubby and his brother. then she posted that her hubby cheated . now she posted she preggo so i gave congrats on myspace. the crazy rip freaked. what do i do? i have so many things i'd love to say to her and her husband

Answer 1

Stand up to her and let her know just what you think of her, Alone and Private. You don't have to try to embarrass her just tell her the facts. That's what I did, and I haven't heard a peep out of my sister in law in over a year. Awwwww talk about bliss!

Answer 2

Dont pay no attention to her. Let her talk if shes going...Let her post whatever...You go about your life with your family.good luck

Answer 3

Tell her shes a drama freak then ignore her. After a certain amount of time, she'll get the message.

Answer 4

This wont help you at all but I had to laugh when i read your post because my sister-in-law is freakin nuts.  lol  It made me think about the days when we would all have big ol' arguments because she opened her mouth again.  

I finally had to adapt a smile-and-nod technique with her.  It works but my brother and I who used to be close never talk anymore.  I guess that is part of growing up and getting married.

Answer 5

I would say to distance yourself IMMEDIATELY!

If she is causing rifts between your hubby and his brother, that is HER problem!  You didn't do anything sounds like to to deserve her craziness.

Too bad when you marry into a family, you marry the psychos too.

I would clear the air with your mom in law one on one, and not include her.  Mom's can be more understanding if they are presented the facts.  SHE may even be feeling weird about her too.  Open up a dialogue with your MIL.

I pray for your bro in law.  if he did cheat that sucks, but if not, poor guy for dealing with her.  I hope she is not preggo for the sake of her relationships, sounds like.

I hate it when people MUST have drama in their lives to survive.  if there is none, they will create it.

Take what she says with a grain of salt, distance yourself and always let your hubby know how you are feeling.

Good luck and I pray for you!

Answer 6

My sister in law may be crazier than yours! We share the same first and last names and she told me that she absolutely hates her name. Uhhh... thanks? Also told me that I HAVE to let her have kids first so her kids don't get my kid's hand me downs.

Your best bet is to just keep what you want to say to yourself. It seems to me that my husband and his family aren't bothered by her "ignorance." If you do say something, it may fall back on you for starting drama. Trust me! It is better to keep your mouth shut and find someone not in the family to complain to, that is what I have been doing for years now! Good luck!

Answer 7

say everything you want to her and her husband

Answer 8

Speak your mind...