I have a crush on a guy at school...But he is known as a "bad kid"?

Question

Hi Im nicole, I just started grade 10 2 weeks ago (yeah school starts already for us, sucks) So our school is pretty huge, over 1700 students. There is a new kid at school in 2 of my classes, also in grade 10; he didn't go to our school last year.He is real different, and extremely mysterious. From what I've seen already and what he does, he seems like he is one of those "bad kids"...Apparently since the first day of school he was already selling weed and rolled joints to people at school, and even rumors he sells cocaine, but only after school. He rarely comes to class and skips, he seems like he doesn't ever do any of his homework. Just another thing about him is, he is SUPER s**y...He has 3 piercings on his left ear, a eyebrow piercing, and like 4 rings on his left hand, and is easily the most muscular (almost suspiciously on steroids or something) in grade 10, and probably out of grade 11s too.

He is nice to everyone, acts a bit weird and doesn't seem to be judgemental...

Answer 1

The reason for dating is to find a spouse.

Would you live with/marry/have kids with this man?

Answer 2

Read that statement and ask yourself.........what would you tell a sensible, rational thinking person to do??? he sells drugs and you know he's trouble.....sure go there but don't whine about the consequences later.....or maybe you could get on with your life and skip the hassle, maybe find someone who isn't going to s***w you over!! THINK....

Answer 3

Oh good lord! Every red flag in the book, and you want to tail after him! RUN...in the opposite direction. Spend time volunteering in the library. Find a guy that is always in there...he's a safe bet. You don't have any kind of a future with a drug dealer, unless you want to be just "one of his girls". Trust me...those guys are bad news. Been there done that. It isn't what it's cracked up to be! The "bad boys", have nothing of value to offer you in life or in love hun. It just isn't worth the hassle or heartache.

Answer 4

for some reason, girls seem to always be attracted to the "bad boy". some women go so far as to write serial rapist and murders in jail. do you know who charles manson is? he has followers and admires of all kinds and he massed murdered people in the name of jesus christ back in the 60's. do you know as fact that his guy sells weed or coke? do you know anything first hand about this guy? he has all the signs of being the wrong guy to be involved with but people tend to judge people by how they look instead of who they are as people. if you want to get to know this guy, then do it. but i'll turn tail and run if he is all of what the rumors say he is. or you can be a friend and show him a better way to live without the drugs. it all depends on how involved you want to get with him. everyone deserves a chance. maybe he doesnt do anything that he's being accused of and would appreciate someone giving him a chance. do what you think is best. but please, go in with both eyes open and if red flags pop out at you RUN LIKE h**l.

Answer 5

Nicole,, I am going to give the best advice with regard to this person,,and you should make a copy of it and keep it for if and when you find yourself anytime,,with thoughts as you now have..All girls are attracted to the 'mystery' bad boy type..Their different than the average guy..They are s**y,cool,,hip,,and do things that are wrong,,and everyone knows it,,but still you are drawn to them ,,like a moth to the flame..The problem is,,they are doomed to be brought down,,and doomed to failure,,and anyone who joins or follows them will share the same fate..Before the end of this school year,,your new friend will be caught for selling drugs,,probably expelled,,and maybe incarcerated into juvenile detention..If anyone so chooses to follow this pied piper,,their fate will probably be likewise !! Here's another tidbit that could very well happen,, he could entice his followers into ''using'' or selling,,or even borrowing money to procure the illegal drugs to sell..I know your vexed by him,,but you need to NOT become involved with him or his situation..It will only bring you heartbreak and sorrow.. And too,,you need not experiment with ''drugs'' or place your academic hopes in peril.. Do yourself a giant favor,,and be a 'silent' observer,,and take a watch and see stance..You will be glad you did !!  Don't put yourself in jeopardy !! I WAS the "GAME"!    Good Luck  !!Choose Wisely !!  SOLOMON