I have a crush on a stranger, who is married?

Question

I have a crush on a total stranger and it has been going on for months now. He is really cute, cool and I love his style. I approached him a couple of days ago asking if we could be friends, and he told me that he's already married. Now i don't even know how to face him in the future. What am I supposed to do now?

Answer 1

crushes come and go.  another man will come along, hopefully single too!

Answer 2

What's the big deal? Just be yourself...it's just a crush. He was probably flattered but at least honest in letting you know there is no potential there. Doesn't mean you cannot smile at him in the future, and keep enjoying the view and his 'style'. ☺

Answer 3

move on, find another crush.. keep  being polite to this guy though.. no big deal really. you flattered him I'm sure...

Answer 4

Why would you approach him and ask to be friends! That is weird.  

Answer 5

He, obviously, respects his marriage vows as you should.  Don't approach him again.  He can remain good "fantasy" material for your "alone" times...wink, wink.

Answer 6

If he's a "stranger", then it'll be easier to forget about it and move on...You made a pass at a man and he rejected you because he's married. - Well, he said what any respectful, loving husband would say. (Amen!)

Really, if anything, you probably gave him a nice ego-boost for the day! ...Next time you see him, just smile and walk on by. - No worries.  

Answer 7

Find another crush that isn't married.  

Answer 8

Forget him.  There's many more people to befriend.  Leave the married ones alone.

Answer 9

I know it's hard but just try to be yourself and pretend you never said anything to him. That way you won't feel so awkward.  

Answer 10

Move on... you do not want to mess with a marriage, and if he did cheat on her with you, would you want that kind of man?

Answer 11

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

                  all you need to do is be cool and calm... i mean all you did was ask him to be his friend... whats wrong in that???? and if he is sensible enough he will take it as a compliment!!!!

dont worry be yourself and enjoy life as it is!!!! and at the end of the day its just a crush!!!!!... relax and just be carefree nad as he sees that you are calm and confident.. he might li8ke to be your friend!!!!!

Answer 12

Love With A Perfect Stranger .

Someone always gets hurt . He already told you he has a wife . In other words , " Leave me alone ", is what he's saying .  find a hobby and get on with your life .

Answer 13

Forget you even said anything he is not interested.

Answer 14

respect his marraige and move on. nothing wrong with a friendly hello in passing and leave it at that.

Answer 15

You better stop it ok! You never know the best man to come your way more than him. He is for you ok? Please never sign up ok?

Answer 16

I'm sure it was a big boost to his ego, be polite to him when you see him, but keep on going. First and formost you don't want to mess with a marriage! NOT EVER! It is no big deal that you approached him, he was honest and told you he was married so move on. There has to be someone out there for you somewhere that isn't married. You should admire him for his honesty and he will probably think more of you for not pursuing him. good luck.

Answer 17

Just leave him alone.be casual friends if necessary.

Answer 18

I dare you to try to mess with my man.

Answer 19

He is married. Crushes are for young girls so you must be young so find someone else and do not try and get him to have an affair everyone will just get hurt, haven't you been reading some of these.

Answer 20

you have desire for the unknown . common .do nothing .he is married and has a wife . getting involved always ends up with a lot of people getting hurt . put your feelings to good use , volunteer for something in the community and stay away from him. he was absolutely right by telling you he's married . in other words he put it politely . NO !

Answer 21

Forget him, hes married and you don't want to get involved in that.

You will find someone else, trust me there lots and lots of men out there. To many in my opinion.

Answer 22

Welcome to Stalkerville, population you.

Answer 23

Leave him alone, he is married and please RESPECT that.  You certainly don't want to lead him into temptation either.  Play it safe and look for a crush who isn't married!

Answer 24

you asked him for friendship not a s*x relationship, unless it appears to them as if you were wanting 'more'.

like he said, he's married so 'BACK OFF!'.

if you find him attractive cool.

but keep it to yourself.

why dont you go after a man who isnt taken, dont be a homewrecker!

imagine yourself as his wife, knowing other woman approach him, he must love his wife very much,! but what if he didnt?

what if he took u up on your offer? knowing you wanted him? what then? u ruin a relationship? a marriage? possibly break a family? is it worth it?

nope

Answer 25

If he's a "total stranger" how can you have a crush on him? You don't even know anything about him!!!  

Answer 26

Look for another stranger that isn't married