she's pushing 40 but feels like she's achieved little with her personal life...some days she gets really sullen and withdrawn. When I ask her if she's okay, she'd give me that 'disgusted' look. What the....! Other days she looks like she's trying way too hard to hang on to shreds of her youth.
What's worse, her birthday's coming and I don't want to be her 'punching bag'. I used to be pretty close to her and I don't know if I should get her a present. I don't want to look as though I'm reminding her about her age. Yet, if I don't get her a present, I'd look really petty.
Her sullen and moodiness come and go quite regularly and it's adding strain to my working relationship with her.
What should I do?
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