I have a friend and shes really mean sometimes?

Question

well...i have this friend....she always plays jokes on me and it really really r mean jokes and they hurt my feelings and she says stuff without thinking. then when she gets pissed of with one of my friends and i help my friend she swears at me then she says can we be friends again. i don't know if i should still be her friend. she sometimes is really nice too and i don't want her to be my friend but sometimes she can be mean.....please help.

Answer 1

why the h**l would you want to still be frineds with her?

Makes NO sense.

If you ever question wanting to be friends with someone, you shouldnt be.

Answer 2

Communication is essential to any long lasting friendship. If you are too frightened to talk to her about her behavior, then that alone tells you that maybe it is time to put this friendship to rest.  

Answer 3

Friends really mean sometimes if mutual.

Answer 4

Give her a quick back-hand and let her know her place.  Being that you are a female as well, this will help solidify your position without getting arrested for a domestic dispute.

If she still keeps it up use a belt.

Take care.

Answer 5

may be... ask her would she stop it coz it hurt ur feeling...

maybe it could help...

Answer 6

i would tell her how you feel but if it continues, she might not be worth the trouble

Answer 7

i wouldn't be her friend.

someone like that definitely isn't worth it.

Answer 8

She's not your friend if she treats you wrong.  Plain and simple!

Ditch her and stick with the true friends that you can trust, and respect you.

Answer 9

your friend is what we call a b*tch

Answer 10

Let her know. See what happens.

Answer 11

pimp slap her  

Answer 12

Jokes at your expense, and jokes that make you feel bad, are not jokes at all, but masked hostility. She is resentful of you, perhaps jealous, and that is why she is mean to you sometimes,. You can do much better than her for a friend, dump her.

Answer 13

Tell her that you don't want to be her friend since she has hurt you so many times. This is not right. Tell her that you don't want to have an on/off friendship. No one should be treated like this by their so called "friends." Good luck!!!

Answer 14

You should try talking to her and tell her how you feel. Make her realise that she is hurting you. If you have other friends you can spend more time with them than with her. If your mean friend keeps playing tricks on you you need to tell someone. She is bullying you.. You may be scared about getting her into trouble but she should have thought of you before she was mean.

Answer 15

I had a friend like that.. he was sleeping with my girlfriend when we were all in my house and he was making sure to moan real loud so that i hear it and it hurts my feelings and if i ever complained about it he would beat me up in front of my girlfriend. He forced me to do his homework and after that he always came up to me and said: ''i don't deserve a friend like you''. Then punched me in the stomach.

So one day i became a man and decided to put a stop to it - so i challenged him to a duel, in world of warcraft.

I was preparin for that moment for weeks! I was training my Wizzard character everyday until he reached a dangerously high (almost illegal) level of power.

Well we met and of course ;) i beat him.. hands down!

The next day he beat me so hard i couldn't open my right eye for 6 days. So then my girlfriend left me and my dad made me change school.

But the point i'm making is... man world of warcraft is the best game ever!

Answer 16

make new friends you don't need her, if she is that kind of friend you really need to think about leaving her alone, she is not a good friend. make that her last time playing jokes and make you feel bad. just leave her alone, don't call her , just move on. you deserve a better friend then her, sounds like she is jealous. good luck, god bless you.

Answer 17

i had a friend like that, and i was pissed at him all the time but yet i still stayed friends with him and he ended up being really cool and watching my back all the time. despite his annoying habbits he became a cool person to have around. i did end up not being his friend in the future but i dont regret having met him. i think the choice is up to you if u want to have her as a friend or not.