I have a friend that just hurt me real bad and now she wants me to forgive her. What should I do?

Question

Basically she takes my kindness for weakness and takes advantage of me, but she always apologizes. Should I still be friends with her?

Answer 1

no you shouldn't. if shes really your friend she wouldn't take advantage of you, shes only using you.  

Answer 2

Friends forgive...until they can't.

Answer 3

No. Because she is using you, don't become friends with her again, she thinks its a cycle and will just keep hurting you and give you a fake apology. Sorry means apologizing for something you did and you won't do it again.

Answer 4

just start slowly seperating yourself from her. start hanging out with other people more than her, and only talk to her if she talks to you first. she'll get the point and if she wants to stay friends with you she'll stop taking advantage of you.

Answer 5

h**l no you should not keep being her friend. The more you let her get away with the worse you will be treated.Just because she says sorry doesn't excuse or take back what she did.

Answer 6

every friend deserves a second chance but if it happens to often then you should really let her know how you feel and if that doesn't work don't be her friend  

Answer 7

make her kno wat she did was not cool but you should just be chill with her....

Answer 8

Slap her and tell her off!

Answer 9

No.  Give yourself the gift of freedom.  Ever heard that saying, "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!" ?  

Answer 10

Well I think u should give her one last chance and if she does it again then tell her that you think that you guys [gals] shouldn't be friends anymore and tell her exactly how you feel about the things she does and the way she does it. I should know because about a month ago my best friend confronted me telling me that i always want to do things my way. Then I found this poem she wrote and I'm 1000% certain it was about me and it just broke my heart badly. But we are still friends today. Although im not sure how long its gonna last.

Answer 11

no. but there IS a difference between being friends and fogiving her.

i think it would be good, for yourself, if you forgive her but you don't  stay friends with her.

Answer 12

NO. she apologizes simply because it has worked before. Tell her you will not be her door mat anymore, and that you don't want to be friends with her, and then follow through. A real friend does not take advantage of their friend.

Answer 13

Tell her straight out how you feel. Let her know that yes you do accept her apology but that does not mean it never happened. That your friendship is not in the same level it was before, as she does not respect your friendship enough.  

Answer 14

it kinda depends on what she did but i think u shouldnt be her friend cuz she apologizes even though she doesnt mean it but just give her one more chance to see if she screws up or not

Answer 15

You need to evaluate your friendship. If she does it intentionally and maliciously and knows that you'll be hurt, maybe she's not really your friend afterall. Could be she's jealous of you about something or she's just a big bully, or maybe even she just wants to cover up her own insecurities. If she does it out of carelessness, it might be that she is just not a sensitive type of person and fails to realise the hurt that she has caused you. Then, in this case, there might still be a cause for change in her behaviour. I hope you are taking this in your stride whatever it is... there are lots of different types of people in this world. Cheer up!

Answer 16

i think that it depends on what she did to you. If what she did was really bad you should talk with her and say her that if she wants to keep your friendship she must stop hurting you because you're getting tired of the same stuff everytime

Answer 17

have a talk with her...tell her what shes doing to you and how it makes you feel...tel her that you giving her one last chance and if she does it again your friendship is done

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Answer 18

well, that depends... has this happened before? if so and she probably doesn't really think she's sorry, but telling u she is for some more time to take advantage of how nice a friend u are.

if not forgive her this once and if it continues then she isn't a real friend. hope I could help