I have a hard time focusing on and finding my character defects. How do i solve this problem ?

Question

I have a hard time focusing on and finding my character defects. How do i solve this problem ?

Answer 1

First it is important to determine whether we understand the meaning of "Character".  Character is the mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual.  Phil, I want you to know you don't have a "problem" because few people can own up to their character flaws.  Other people are more apt to know our flaws than we do.  Nevertheless, here is a list of quotes which you may find helpful in finding your "character defects":

"Our characters are the result of our conduct"--Aristotle

"The two ways to develop character are thought, hardship and responsibility"--Will Durant

Abraham Lincoln once said, "Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing."

"You can judge a man's character by whether he would ask for a light burden or a strong back, if he were given the choice."

Hope the above help.

Answer 2

Ask someone else for help to do so.