I have a huge crush on a guy at my school, but he is a drug dealer?

Question

Hi Im nicole, I just started grade 10 3 weeks ago (yeah school starts already for us, sucks) So our school is pretty huge, over 1700 students. There is a new kid at school in 2 of my classes, also in grade 10; he didn't go to our school last year.He is real different, and extremely mysterious. From what I've seen already and what he does, he seems like he is one of those "criminals"...Apparently since the first day of school he was already selling weed and pre rolled joints to people at school, and I've heard he sells cocaine, but only after school. He rarely comes to class and skips, he seems like he doesn't ever do any of his homework. Just another thing about him is, he is SUPER s**y...He has 3 piercings on his left ear, a eyebrow piercing, and like 4 rings on his left hand, and is easily the most muscular (almost suspiciously on steroids or something) in grade 10, and probably out of grade 11s too.

He is nice to everyone, acts a bit weird and doesn't seem to be judgemental...

Answer 1

TAKE UP SMOKING WEED..???

Answer 2

if you think that you can change him and make him into a normal person it might not be such a bad idea but seriously what r u going to tell your parents hi im dating a drug dealer .

you say hes muscular he probably works out ask him if you want to work out together and talk about all these problems and try making him like something else youll see if its really worth going out with him . but its best to stay away from trouble

Answer 3

Steer well clear of him, for your own good. How do you know he doesn't take drugs himself? There is a possibility that he isn't but still, most drug dealers take something themselves. Even if he isn't on drugs - is this really the kind of person you want to be involved with?

You said you see something special in him. What's so special about someone who is low enough to sell drugs to get money? I'm sure you and this guy are both perfectly aware of the things drugs can do to people, let alone the laws behind what he's doing as well. Trust me on this one, there's nothing even remotely special about this guy. The bottom line is that he is selling drugs to people for money, he is selfish and greedy. You also say he is extremely mysterious - to me that is more of a reason to stay away. It sounds like he will lie and hide things from people. He is nothing less than a criminal and someone you should definitely not associate with. He's nice to everyone because he wants customers and it's a good job he isn't judgmental because he has no right to be.

Whatever he might seem like to you, he's trouble. He might look nice to you, but getting involved with him would be a bad idea.

Answer 4

I dont think you are the type to take advice. But inform on him he is not cool or s**y he is a loser, and you will be 2 if you have anything to do with him.

My advice to you is to print this answer off and in a years time take it out and see that i was right.

Answer 5

Get to like someone else...He is bad news

Answer 6

dont get to know him! frm wot i've herd he is dangerous!!

Answer 7

Hey, Mum, Dad, I`ve just met this fella, he`s a real nice guy, a super s**y drug dealer........................... What?, are you mad?

Answer 8

Thats becuase he's high xD

So what if he's a drug dealer, he won't force you to have any.

Answer 9

Keep well away from him. Speak to families who have lost loved ones to drugs which were "Only dealt to them". You have got some romantic notion in your mind that you can reform him, well you cannot. Please keep away from him

Answer 10

get high with him then **** him then dont talk to him ever again

Answer 11

turn in the drug dealer

Answer 12

don't go near him

Answer 13

Please,  think long and hard about approaching this guy. do you really want to be seen with a person who sells, A .B .class drugs ?? . This can only end up one way........ You being hurt, more ways then one!!....... He's trouble you don't need..

Answer 14

Its just impossible for a 10th grader to be that slow!

Answer 15

It sounds like you're asking for trouble.

Answer 16

Drug abusers hurt EVERYTHING and EVERYONE around them!  Why do you want to volunteer for this disaster?  Do you think he will make a great father?  Do you think he will make a great husband?  Do you think "my love will change him?"  That's NAIVE.  Want to hock everything you have to bail him out of jail?  My sister's EX sold and used drugs and he robbed her blind.  Even stole the heart necklace given to her by my late mother.  A drug abuser knows one thing: DRUGS everything else is secondary including YOU!

Answer 17

I wouldn't bother with this guy if i was you. if he is a dealer then any trouble he gets into you may get into as well if you get close to him.

Also, from what i know dealers are prone to getting people to take drugs who haven't before, and it really isn't a road you want to take honey seriously. it'll wreck your life, school and family life ----- everything. Meet someone else, it'll be better for you.

Everything is secondary to a dealer, the same as you would be.

Answer 18

Oh,  he sounds  so attractive....so  all american....just the type of man I would want to have for a boy friend,  I would just love to be seen w/something like that, so that I could get the same reputation as he has.  And believe me,,,,it's not good.  He is TRASH....pure trash. Why on earth would you find that attractive....that is an animal...no,  animals don't poke holes in their bodies or faces......god how disgusting.  Says a lot about you  too.  Sickening....to say the least. Have at it...but WHY? Aren't there any normal guys there?  Not good enough for you?

Answer 19

dont be stupid, he sounds like a lot of trouble, and you dont want to be connected to that do you?  so what if he is super s**y...you can find someone that is better....  without the drugs!!!

Answer 20

No i wouldn't talk to him, but if he talks to you be polite, i think you should say something to the teacher, as he could offer it to younger people,

One day Me, My Brother and Mum were walking down the street it was about 6-7ish a man asked my mum if she smoked weed, she said no, when we walked away, he asked 2 girls they looked about sixteen, they ignored him, later my sister in law convinsed my mum to phone the police

Answer 21

Avoid him. There will be other cute guys in your life that treat you good and don't believe in criminal activity just to 'turn a buck' but earn an honest wage and aren't heading to jail and not 'turning on kids' in the prime of their life when they should be taking better care of themselves. I wish you could shut him down. Don't try to change him or he will probably just hide what he's doing from you. Sometimes drug dealers are a lot like used car salesmen. Don't fall for it. You don't know him. You probably don't want to.

Answer 22

You need to higher your standards. Really, a drug dealer?! Then guess what? He's gonna get you in biiiiiiiiiig trouble. I'm sorry, but I REALLY don't think anyone on here is going to tell you how to get yourself together with a criminal, unless they have VERY bad judgement. Like yourself.

Answer 23

He doesn't do drugs himself, just cashes in on other people's misery?

Oh yeah, real s**y. He sounds like a complete moron. Go crush on a decent human being instead.

Answer 24

dont even get close to him, i hate people like that, i dont even care about his looks if he sells drugs

Answer 25

yeah go ahead and hook up with him so that you can end up pregnant at 16, have a kid and then continue the whole welfare cycle all over again. I'm sure you won't graduate and then you will end up working at mcdonalds your whole life. Don't worry I don't mind paying taxes out of my *** for people like you............

Answer 26

You see something in him that might be special?  Oh, you're those girls that involved with bad guys because you think you can SAVE them.  'Scuse my giggling.  He's not judgemental because anyone can be a potential customer.  So he rarely goes to school, meaning he won't be very educated, and will have at most a 10th grade education.  Meaning that his employment prospects won't be very good, which means he'll turn to harder crime.... but you don't want to hear this.  If you want to hook up with him, ask him for a nickel sack.  He'll know what you mean.  Then say that you can't pay, but maybe you can work something out.  And you're in.

Answer 27

STAY FAR AWAY from him and don't EVER FALL IN LOVE with him. If not, YOU WILL BE LIVING A LIFE OF h**l in the future.

I have SEEN SO MANY such cases where the woman/girlfriend/lover/ wife suffer FOREVER.