I have a major crush problem=[?

Question

I reaaaalllllllllyyyyy like someone A lot I don't know why but I like LOVE him. Everytime on myspace I see he's on, My heart jumps so far into my throat I feel as if I need to throw up. I get really bad butterflies everytime I see him around school. I have found myself lately changing my self to his likes and dislikes and becoming more sporty trying to get him to notice that I exist. He was in one of my classes at the end of the year before summer and ever since I've been in love. I finally had the courage to comment him but he seemed sort of weird as if he knew I liked him. It's one of those I was excited and didn't know what to say so I wasn't thinking when I typed that stuff. I really want to at least be friends but everytime he gets off I'm always afraid it's because I'm on. He's really nice but really shy and I really like him a lot. What should I do? talking hasn't helped.

Answer 1

wow. that sounds EXACTLY what happens to me when i like someone. Don't worry about him signing off when you're on, because its not you. From experience, i know that commenting him and being online at the same time as him feels HUGE to you, but to him its just you, a girl from school who he doesn't talk to often. He prolly "seemed sort of weird" after your comment because thats prolly the first time hes really talked to you. (correct me if i'm wrong.) So to sum it all up, he right now thinks of you as a girl from school that he sorta knows, and you feel like you REALLY know him. To get him up to speed, swallow your shyness (if you have any) and say hi every so often, talk to him about general school stuff.. etc. etc.

hope that helped! :D

Answer 2

The one thing you don't want to be is crazy, psycho girl. Slow down and just be friendly and write small amounts on his page. I know that you like him and even "love" him, but if you scare him off where will you be? If he is interested, he has already noticed you. Does he talk to you at school? Does he look at you when you walk by? Has he even tried to flirt with you?  If he hasn't do these things, then he isn't interested in you. I'm sorry, but sometimes the people we like don't like us.