i have been married for 5 years now and out of that my husband has told me over and over again he was done with drinking and drugs, we have spent thousands on the suboxone program because he said he wanted to get off the drugs, he wanted a specific house and he said if he got it he would never drink again, only to drink everytime i walk out of the house, yesterday he said he wanted to see our grandson, he said how much he loved him and missed him only to take him out on the boat after drinking and when i said something about him doing that and flirting with the girl next door he got pissed off and threw our food on the floor, broke a lamp, told me he hated me and he wants to leave, told our grandson that he wanted him to go home because if he didn't he was going to ignore him by staying in the bedroom all day and believe me he did it too, all day yesterday and all day today, he wouldn't even get his grandson anything to drink after he asked him too.
he use to say he would stop drinking before i left him but no more, and when i say something about our s*x life he blames it on me, he said he woke up the other day and he was horney but instead of him doing anything he said he went into the bathroom and took care of himself. as long as i keep my mouth shut everything is ok, meaning he will work, be happy, do everything i guess he is supose to do, but i HATE DRINKING AND DRUGS.
so give me some advice please
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