I have a married friend that is seeing a married woman?

Question

He says they both know what is going on and they are in love but have no plans to ever leave their spouses. Can this really work? Do you know anyone that it has worked for. I know them both and their spouses. What do I say to them they are very open with me on this. They both have children. Do I say nothing? I do not want to lose their friendship.

Answer 1

Sad...

Answer 2

Stay out of it family matters are just that the ones involved. Unless their is abuse of a child involved.  

Answer 3

Actually this situation has already altered your friendship with them as it has an integrity problem. I would just keep some distance. It will not last for long, they are kidding themselves. Soon you will hear an explosion.

Answer 4

You should do your best to stay out of it, if your friends that are having an affair try to talk about it with you tell them you don't feel comfortable talking about this, If i were you i wouldn't tell there spouses about it either its really not your place to do so. Just do your best not to get involved.

Answer 5

Oh stay out of it and sit back and watch the show..  

Answer 6

Stay out of it! I caught my neighbor in an affair once. I called my mom and asked her what to do . She said keep out of it. The woman will forgive her husband and end up hating you. I listened and they were divorce 6 months later and my neighbor didn't hate me.  

Answer 7

its a matter of morals, when you get married to someone you are supposed to respect them and be with only them.  I wonder what the spouses would think if they knew.  i think they have a right to know about it and the should.