I have a narcissist intimacy problem...can I be cured?

Question

I'm a subtle narcissist, I'm charming, patient, lecture people, and have never had an intimate relationship. I just make people fall for me then I am am no longer interested in them. I was dating a guy who was seemingly perfect and I tried to make it work, but I felt suffocated and the need to be with other people so broke it off after only a week. Can I change? I don't want to wake up one day on my death bed and realize I never allowed myself to fall in love.

Answer 1

Just any newsstand tabloid for three times in a row

Answer 2

It seems to me that you are suffering from some kind of commitment issues. Perhaps a male has hurt you in the past or your father left you when you were younger. The only way to overcome is to face your fears of abandonment or being rejected. Maybe tell the guy to give you some space but dont break it off. You seem like a special person just keep trying and you'll see that you will find that special someone but you have to give that special someone a chance.

Answer 3

Therapy would be a good idea so that you can work on this issue