I have a problem, please help!!!!

Question

Me and whole bunch of my friends were playing hid and seek outside one night and then my friend passed out in my yard cuz she hit her head, everyone was freaking out and told me to get my mom but i couldn't because she was drunk. Nobody knew my mom drinks. Well, until now. And my best friend got her mom and her mom asked me why i didn't get my mom so i started and crying and said i can't get her she's drunk and now everyone knows my mom drinks and my best friends mom knows and i'm just afraid they'll look at me differently. I felt really weird too because my best friend had her mom while mine was sleeping in my house. I couldn't get my dad either cuz he was at work, but then he came home once my best friends parents were there. Can anyone give me some advice? I feel so weird and different...

Answer 1

Just remember that it's your mom who's making the mistakes, not you; and it is not your job to shoulder the responsibility for her actions. I can't imagine the position this puts you in, and I hope all turns out well for you.

Don't blame yourself, there is nothing that you could have done to change the situation in any way.  And nothing about you has changed, all that has changed i possibly people's opinions about you. And if they're judging you based on your mother's mistakes, then they aren't even worth you time, it's their loss.

Answer 2

look say i am sorry the other night my mom had a little to much to drink she had a rough day and just needed something to take off the edge. And if they anything say it doesn't happen all the time only when she is stressed out.  

Answer 3

If your mom is a hard core alcoholic, then this would be occurring more than once. Either way, it's not your fault about what your mom is doing. You should just be there to support your mom, and advise her to get help.  

Answer 4

hey

          I am so sorry for you .Its okay it is not you .moreover try to sort out why your mom drinks and talk to her be brave and believe me she is your mom and there is definitely a way out ...god bless you and show you a way out ...be your self help...help your mom come out of it..you can do it ...I know its not so easy ..but do it ...give it a try atleast ....god bless you ..takecare

Answer 5

YOUR NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT YOUR PARENTS DO , I WOULD THINK THAT YOUR FRIENDS ARE ONLY CONCERTED FOR YOU , TALK TO THEM AND TELL THEM YOU FEEL THEY ARE JUDGING YOU ,IT WILL ALL BE O.K. JUST BE HONEST WITH YOUR FEELINGS