I have a problem. What do i do?

Question

Every time i say something to my little sister my dad comes in the room and gives me a dirty look and sometimes he hits me and says stop fighting. This morning, my little sister put on a shirt. she was wearing it the way wrong way. i came in and helped her and he yelled at me and said he would smack me in the nose and break it. Then, the next thing i did was pick her paints up off of the floor so the baby couldn't get to them. i put them on the dresser. She said that the baby would get them off the top of a 4 foot dresser! He's less than 2 feet tall! ha! so i told her that it wouldnt and my dad stomped in and tried to get me in a corner so he could hurt me. What can i do? i don't do anything, and he assumes that i say something mean or that we're fighting! What can i do about this? my mom won't listen she just says he has a bad temper and tells me to be good. I AM GOOD! WHAT THE h**l?

Answer 1

I'm so sorry to hear about what is happening to you . I don't know how how old you are but no one has the right to physically abuse anyone much less their own child. My advice would be to talk to your counselor at school you need to tell someone you trust because one day you might seriously get hurt. It's not fair to you or the other children in you home. I'm so sorry your mother won't help . tell a grandparent or anyone you know cares . there is help sweet heart and you don't deserve this. My prayers are with you and your family good luck.

Answer 2

I would sit down with your dad and try to have a converstion with him about this problem. If you approach him in a mature adult like manner, maybe he will begin to treat you differently. Plus the way you described him hitting you, well thats child abuse, and he can't actually legally touch you.

Answer 3

Something's missing here.  Unless your dad is in the room or clairvoyant, he can't know what goes on between you and your sister.  Whose baby is it?  Is he really mad at you about something totally unconnected to your sister?  Wish I could help but this remains a mystery without more input.

Good Luck

Answer 4

I am sorry to say this, but that sounds like abuse.  I would call child protection services.   you shouldn't have to be threatened or hurt by your father.  I am reading that you are probably a good kid. no one is perfect or good all the time, but no one deserves such treatment.   before you do that can't you try and sit down with your father and talk it out?  Don't try to talk to him when he is angry or threatening you, just try it when he is in a good mood and there is no one else to interfere.   You also need to try and talk to your mom again and tell her that you understand that he has a bad temper, but that his temper should not be taken out on you, especially when you are trying to help.  you should also talk to your mom at a good time, not right after your dad behaves like that.   maybe you can have just a quiet time with your mom... I hope it gets better for you!    

Answer 5

Does he behave in this way all the time?

I think maybe he is in deep stress and he do not want more trouble.I don't mean you are making trouble.  Even you behave well he might think other wise.

If it possible to talk to him. seek his advise how you can be good. Than behave the way he wanted.

If he come out with nothing like "Just stay out of trouble!"  and you notice something not right, just inform your mum.

Answer 6

I feel bad for you.It must have been hard to be in this kind of situation.Talk to your dad and explain things to him.Talk to him privately.Your dad can't just do that to you,you know.What he is doing to you is abuse.

Answer 7

Thats not right.  I would try to keep out of your sisters way then you cant get into any trouble.

I have a little sister she used to get me into trouble all the time becouse i was older.

Try keep out of the way.  The only thing i can suggest is to get in touch wiv child line and speak to someone their.

I hope things get better for you.

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Answer 8

Whatever you do dont click on that link above ^

To me you sound like a pretty good girl

Maybe you should sit down and talk

to your mom and tell him what he is doing to you

or maybe talk to a family member like your aunt uncle etc

Someone close and tell them what he is doing to you

That's the best advice i could give to you if he abuses you

the wrong way there are services that can help you and its illegal for your mom or dad to hurt you in the wrong way

Answer 9

These Are The Situations Which No One Can Understand Which I Am Telling You As I Have Experienced It. Just Be As Much Silent As You Can. You Cant Do Anything Else. Be Silent And Everything Will Be Fine.

Answer 10

I would go talk to the school consular about it or someone that can help. He might me smacking you around, but he will get even more violent i know this from my personal life. It's not the right this. When I told someone he wasn't aloud to come home for 4 days and when he came back he never touched me again