I have a problem im depressed because i dont have a sister help please?

Question

sometimes i wish i had a big sister

i mean like i wish i had somebody to talk ot about girly stuff

like periods, boys, problems ect.

i know i can talk about that stuff with my mom but you know...

and someone i can shop with.

my mom dosnt like to shop

i only have brothers

my mom is at work all day

i have friends but i dont have a best friend they seem to always

leave me out of stuff.

sometimes i feel alone

:-(

can you help me please??

im 13

im going to 8th grade

i'll probably make friends there but it isnt the same of like having a sister

im sad

Thanks for listing.

Answer 1

im seriously that EXACT same way you are i have 4 brothers and no sisters but im 14 going into 9th grade. and i dont feel like i have a best friend, its like they just seem to fade away or leave me out all the time.

Answer 2

Big sisters aren't that great- I don't have one.

Usually they fight,though.

I have a brother- and he always has my neighbor over so in a way I have 2 brothers.

Both my parents are at work all day.

My friends leave me out of stuff too- it's like they are distant now.

I feel alone a lot too.

Im your age- and I'll bet you will make friends in 8th grade.I hope I do too.

I think a lot of friendships die out b/c you really don't have any classes together......that always happens to me.

Answer 3

i have an older sister but shes 5 years older than me so i can't talk to her about that stuff either cuz she wouldn't understand....but in 7th and 8th grade i fould a best friend who i could telll everything too....i think that you will find someone like that...i mean i see my best friend as my sister

Answer 4

*smiles*  Sweetie, I have an older sister and her and I very rarely speak.  When we do, the roles are reversed and she's the one who comes to ME for advice.  It's very messed up.  I can't depend on my sister for anything really but she can depend on me, so in a sense, I am older than my older sister.

I think what you are really looking for is a friend, a confidant, someone who will listen to you when you speak, answer your questions and be that shoulder for you to lean on.

And you will meet that one special person, have faith.

Answer 5

Well,I am only 2 years older than you,but I'd be happy to adopt you as a cyber baby sister :)

Answer 6

you should look into the big brothers big sisters program which may help you

Answer 7

yea i kno how  u feel. i was like that at ur age..but not im 15 n my moms best friend is only 27 so i call her wen i need to talk bout that stuff or just want to get away from my house for awhile. even tho shes not my sister i call her mine  because we r soo close u need to find some one like that..hope that helped

Answer 8

You may not have a sister but you can choose one. So, in a sense, you are lucky. Some people get stuck with evil, nasty sisters. You can pick someone older to confide in that is best suited for your personality. You should not be sad though.

Once you get in high school, engage in some extra curricular activities and you will find someone that you can trust with your same interests.

Good luck, relax, and enjoy high school. The years will fly by

Answer 9

I don't have a big sister either. But my friends with older sisters fight with them constantly. They don't tell secrets and ask for advice and hang out with their sisters.

What it sounds like you really want is a close friend. You'll make more friends in 8th grade. Just be friendly and don't be shy. Be confident and reach out to people and try to become closer to the friends you already have. Soon you'll be so tight with them that you can talk to them about anything, and you'll talk about guys and periods and all that stuff, and you'll go shopping with them.

You're right, it won't be like having a sister. But most sisters don't get along a whole lot. They love each other, but they fight constantly and aren't really that close to each other.

So make some friends in 8th grade and it'll be great. You'll have people to talk to and who will be there for you when you need them.

Answer 10

no you dont. usually you want an older sister like 4 or 5 years older. and mine is, my sister wants nothing to do with me.

yeah. they are kinda bossy. hahaha, BTW i have all sisters, one older and one younger.

and you cant just get a sister.

Answer 11

talk to your babysitter. dont be depressed about something you cant change. durrr.

Answer 12

Get a girl dog (im totally seroious). Get like a companion dog like a chihuahua or pomeranian or pug you know like a toy breed.